Chloe88 Posted June 25, 2012 Posted June 25, 2012 Hi everyone! im ikn a situation ive never been in before. been dating this guy for 3 months, and he's been acting weird the whole time. he would spend the night looking at me and caressing my hair one day, and disappear saying he wasnt ready for a relationship the day after, or saying that he didnt feel like seeing me. and then anytime i asked about his mom and brother he would say "if i am like this with YOU, can you imagine how worst i act with them?" but then he would come back for me cause being without me was unbearable. this went on and on for three months and the reason why i did not run away or burnt our bridges is cause i know hes got a lot of problems and smokin weed surely does not help. also because everytime we're together i feel some very sdtrong bound, even when we're apart i always feel we're connected somehow, and so does him. but yet i do not understand.. which version is true? do u love me, or can u be without me? i cannot ask him cause the answer would dipend on the mood he's in. i really love him and i really feel bad cause, taking apart olur relationship and my feelings, i feel like im not giving him the help and the support he needs. im in love, for the first time, and i just wanna see this from another point of view. its destroying me slowly but i cannot leave him like that.. help!!
Philosoraptor Posted June 25, 2012 Posted June 25, 2012 He sounds like he has a lot of issues going on. I'd set a boundary and tell him you're either on or off, no more of this back and forth stuff.
an6el Posted June 25, 2012 Posted June 25, 2012 seems like you're either his backup or he's not sure about being with you... or maybe he's juggling between others and doesn't want to hurt your feelings.... I had a guy like that once... but in the end, he turned out that he cheated on me so many times...
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