marv88 Posted June 25, 2012 Posted June 25, 2012 me and my ex are both 26 been together for about a year a few months ago i got diagnosed with cancer after a few rounds of chemo she told me she could not cope no more and left. i have been in nc for a few weeks now my choice she has wanted to stay friends. i have been given some bad news lately and there is a good chance i am not going to beat this i dont know if i should make friends and hang out while we can or keep nc ??
Philosoraptor Posted June 25, 2012 Posted June 25, 2012 I'm so very sorry to hear of this. I wish you nothing but the best. Sadly though she left because of this and I'm really not sure that telling her about what's going on now is going to do anything but guilt her into coming back.
Ruby65 Posted June 25, 2012 Posted June 25, 2012 I'm so so sorry you're going through this!! As far as your ex, I think you should do what you want. She's offering you friendship only, and if you feel that this is something that would help you through this hard time, then I'd accept her offer. It's really up to you and how you feel..... although from her behavior she sounds like a pretty fair weather friend to me. Do you think she'd help make this time easier for you? Or would she just bring you pain? You can always TRY being friends and see if this is something that helps you -- or if the negatives outweigh the positives, you can just go back to NC. You don't really owe her any loyalty at this point.
CaliBabe Posted June 25, 2012 Posted June 25, 2012 I am so very sorry. I think it is a terrible thing she left you like this. Do you think being friends with her would be beneficial to you? If so, I think you should try to be friends. If you think it might hurt you more, then I would stay away.
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