sparky_marky Posted June 25, 2012 Posted June 25, 2012 (edited) Hello, me and my girlfriend have split up 3 weeks ago now. I am completely devastated and I cant stop thinking about her! We work at the same place as well which is where we met and we see each other quite alot. We didnt have a bad break up and we still get along. She was the one who ended it saying that she wants to be on her own and that we have nothing in common but says she still wants to be friends. I see her looking at me at work quite a lot and when she sees me looking back she turns away and when we talk sometimes its like we are still together and sometimes she can be quiet and a bit distant. We have got tickets to a music festival in august and she says that she still wants us to go together as friends but I dont think thats the best idea. I would like to go but dont want to go and make things awkward. When I mention about selling my ticket to she go's moody and seems as though she wants me to still go but I am not sure if maybe she feels a bit guilty? Her sister and her friend are going to. It seems as though she is giving me mixed signals and she isnt the sort of girl to play silly games. I have stopped texting her and stuff now and the only contact we have is when we are at work. I want her back so bad but I think deep deep down that its not going to happen but I am struggling to move on. Im not sure if shes confused wants me back or if its all over. I want to ask her if we will ever get back together but I am scared she will say no. Thanks Edited June 25, 2012 by sparky_marky
Philosoraptor Posted June 25, 2012 Posted June 25, 2012 She sounds just as confused as you are. Breaking up is never easy. It's natural to have questions and thoughts constantly. Even more so when you have to continually see the person. If you'd like to heal the best path would be to have a little contact with her as possible. Much easier said than done.
Author sparky_marky Posted June 25, 2012 Author Posted June 25, 2012 she also says this will happen further down the line and its easier to do this now. It come as a complete shock as things were going so well.
Philosoraptor Posted June 25, 2012 Posted June 25, 2012 she also says this will happen further down the line and its easier to do this now. It come as a complete shock as things were going so well. Just because they were going well in your mind doesn't mean she felt the same way. She obviously felt it was bad enough or had such little potential that she'd rather end things. And I'd agree with her, better sooner than later. 1
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