drguerre Posted June 25, 2012 Posted June 25, 2012 Hey, new to the forums and lately I've been really shaky about my relationship. I've been with him for a year and some change now. We met through mutual friends a little bit before we graduated high school and he's been my best friend ever since. A year is a short time to the average person, but to me, I'm scared senseless of this because it's all new. Lately, I've been getting a flaky feeling about his feelings towards me. Just last night, I got too drunk and accused him of not feeling the same for me as I do for him. He got angry (I can't blame him) and I woke up with a hangover and to a bunch of texts from him telling me how he loves me and all of that good stuff. Feelings rekindled for me through out the day. Then the odd feeling came back when I called him. He's NEVER home after work. He always gets out of work late and he'll go and hang out with his friends and I'm always home sitting in bed not being able to talk to him. If he came home once in awhile I'd feel so much better about it, but he's hardly ever home. But when he hangs out with me, we never have a single thing to do and we end up in his house. I'm 90% sure he's not cheating (always save a certain percentage because you never really know), so that's not something that's crossing my mind. I guess I feel a sense of jealousy or something. I feel crazy even posting this, to be honest, because I don't know if this is a normal feeling to have for this kind of situation. Do I talk to him? Do I tell him how I feel? I feel like if I tell him how I feel, he'll think I'm trying to control him and by all means I am not. I don't know.
FitChick Posted June 25, 2012 Posted June 25, 2012 Why don't you plan a night out with the girls or take a class? Why don't the two of you take dance lessons together? Then he'd have to take you out dancing.
Author drguerre Posted June 25, 2012 Author Posted June 25, 2012 In all honesty I have two friends, one has a baby and one I try not to hang out with because shes always in trouble. So a girls night out is out of the question. And we're always broke, so we cant go out dancing. Maybe a date is something we need though. I just dont know if feeling angry toward this situation is an okay feeling.
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