woodstok Posted July 3, 2004 Posted July 3, 2004 Here is the deal my ex and i who recently broke up with me about 3 weeks ago, we are still friends, we hang out ,we talk if not everyday every other day, she is doing her thing as i am doing my own thing. She lived with me for about 6 months then after the breakup moved back home which i am cool with that because we were starting to act like an old married couple. We talked last night and both agreed we missed each other but at the same time we both liked the space and just the whole getting back in the groove of things with friends we both neglected during our relationship. Anyways the point here is, we planned a trip to Mexico while together, i got the vacation package already, its set for october, can not be changed as both our names are on tickets, but we talked about it and we are both very excited to go, is this odd? who knows what will happen while there in mexico, its a 7 day trip, and who knows if come october i will be involved with someone or maybe she will, what the hell though you know i am not giving up my trip and it really does not bother me to go with her as she is also my best friend as i am hers. Anyone out there thinking "what the f**k", let me know what you think as no one else really knows about this, not even my friends or family because they would probably have me committed. So i am asking you guys out there, let me know your opinions....
capitald Posted July 3, 2004 Posted July 3, 2004 You obviously are not done playing with each other so have FUN!!! Enjoy your trip. Don't overthink it.
Author woodstok Posted July 3, 2004 Author Posted July 3, 2004 Damn, your right, i never thought of it like that "not done playing with each other" and hell yeah we will have fun......
Pyrannaste Posted July 3, 2004 Posted July 3, 2004 I agree with Capitald....go on the trip and have fun....and perhaps something interesting will happen (like realizing you get on very well together and perhaps getting back together). who knows if come october i will be involved with someone or maybe she will, what the hell though you know i am not giving up my trip and it really does not bother me to go with her as she is also my best friend as i am hers Of course if by then you'll be involved with someone else going to the trip without telling her is NOT an option for you. If you are absolutely positive you are not giving up the trip for whatever reason, I strongly advise you not to start a relationship with someone else until the end of october.
Author woodstok Posted July 3, 2004 Author Posted July 3, 2004 I hear you, because if i am in a new relationship it would be wierd to tell my new girlfriend that i am going on vacation with my ex. How would she take it you know, i could say oh we are just friends but who goes on vacation with their ex to a romantic 7 day resort? Not a whole lot of people, and hell she may even be seeing someone as well so she would somehow have to tell her new man about her upcoming trip with her ex. I dont think many guys would be cool with the idea, i mean i know i probably would not be. I do know thought that the trip is on no matter what and i am not giving it up plus right now i am not even thinking about starting a new relationship with anyone, hell i just got out of this one 3 weeks ago, i nee my time ....But i am not really trying to think too much on it you know because what i really want is to just have fun, get a little drunk, do a bunch of stuff and the way i look at it is we can do it as friends without a problem. If somthing else happens then whatever but if either of us is involved with someone else i dont see us actually hooking up......but one never knows.........its also three months away so who knows what could happen we may even be back together but i really dont see it happening, i just see us being good friends til the end........
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