unimush43 Posted June 25, 2012 Posted June 25, 2012 i turned 13 last month. i like a guy the just turned 18 today. i've liked him for several months now. I can honestly say he's the nicest person I've ever met. He's funny and has a devilish smile. He plays the drums and the guitar. He's my bro's friend. I don't know what it is that makes me feel so strongly towards him. my heart beats so fast around him. he makes me smile and laugh so easily even when we don't talk. his smile is so contagious. he goes to my church. even though it's illegal and kind of weird right now, do you think "we" could happen, say, when i'm 22 and he's 27 or even when i'm 18 and he's 23 or would that seem weird? and sorry if this is in the wrong category. i can't see them for some reason.. -_-
MissBee Posted June 25, 2012 Posted June 25, 2012 When you're legal, go for it! But so long as you are underaged I don't think you should be worrying about guys who are way older. I'll let you in on a secret...most older guys, guys who are adults who date kids/teens, have some kind of issue. So don't be flattered by this. You're an especially young teen, barely a teen. A college man or grown man dating a middle schooler/high school girl is creepy and not at all attractive. It's common for girls to like older guys, but I think 13 and 18 is a huuuuuuuuuuge gap in experience and life stage and you should focus on guys closer to your own age. Chances are, when you're 22 or 18 yourself you will have NO interest in him and you'll probably forget that you even liked him...as I am sure you will like other guys in the years to come and your perspective will be A LOT different. 2
SincereOnlineGuy Posted June 27, 2012 Posted June 27, 2012 i turned 13 last month. i like a guy the just turned 18 today. i've liked him for several months now. I can honestly say he's the nicest person I've ever met. He's funny and has a devilish smile. He plays the drums and the guitar. He's my bro's friend. I don't know what it is that makes me feel so strongly towards him. my heart beats so fast around him. he makes me smile and laugh so easily even when we don't talk. his smile is so contagious. he goes to my church. even though it's illegal and kind of weird right now, do you think "we" could happen, say, when i'm 22 and he's 27 or even when i'm 18 and he's 23 or would that seem weird? and sorry if this is in the wrong category. i can't see them for some reason.. -_- Hi, I responded to another of your threads. It is perfectly OK that YOU are so drawn to this older guy, and I'm sure you've heard ALL of those reasons why to pursue him now wouldn't be a good idea. (they all include the line: "... he is at a different stage in life than you are..." ) At any rate, don't worry about your height, no matter whether you grow any taller, or not. Just let nature run its course, and I suspect that you'll have a whole new collection of concerns and statistics to report in a few years. Hope you won't waste too much of your teenage years critiquing yourself from every angle.
FitChick Posted June 28, 2012 Posted June 28, 2012 It's your hormones, that's all. Stay away from this guy unless you want him to go to jail. Aren't there any boys your own age you can fantasize about? Have you had sex education in class yet? Don't be one of those stupid girls who gets pregnant.
stillafool Posted June 28, 2012 Posted June 28, 2012 When you turn 18 your mind will not be on this guy but plenty of others. Trust me on that statement. Right now forget about the boys and study as hard as you can. There will be plenty of them and time for them later. 1
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