regio1990 Posted June 24, 2012 Posted June 24, 2012 Me and my gf of 1 year broke up about 5 months ago and ive been moving on pretty well so far. But I still miss her from time to time and still have her on my mind. I havent talked to her in these 5 months but lately ive been wanting to txt her saying I miss her. Is that a good move or no? Also we broke up because she wanted to be single for a while and we started to grow apart. Thank you for and thank you for any advice you can give me.
january2011 Posted June 24, 2012 Posted June 24, 2012 In nearly all cases, the answer is invariably, "no." I really don't see any good coming from you breaking NC. Since you posted this in the Second Chances forum, it suggests that you'e still not over her and perhaps you're hoping to get back together. Unless the issues that caused the break up have been resolved, I suspect that the likelihood of success on a second go-around are slim at best. So, again, "no," do not break NC. She wants to be single for a while, so the ball is in her court. If and when she decides that she wants to give up her singlehood for a relationship with you, then she will contact you. Otherwise, I suggest that you carry on rebuilding your life without her so that you are ready for your next relationship; whether that relationship is with her or someone else.
sheithappens Posted June 24, 2012 Posted June 24, 2012 No , it might set back your healing process. Hang in there!
Phanpooh Posted June 24, 2012 Posted June 24, 2012 NC isnt a mind game, and it called NC cuz it god damn no f-word contact. If u break it, for what? For your selfish? And use guilty to hurt her, who dun want to dmg ur weakness? Stay strong, bro!
whichwayisup Posted June 25, 2012 Posted June 25, 2012 Me and my gf of 1 year broke up about 5 months ago and ive been moving on pretty well so far. But I still miss her from time to time and still have her on my mind. I havent talked to her in these 5 months but lately ive been wanting to txt her saying I miss her. Is that a good move or no? Also we broke up because she wanted to be single for a while and we started to grow apart. Thank you for and thank you for any advice you can give me. Noooo don't do it.. She isn't in your life anymore. Since she wanted to be single for a while, she needs to be the one to contact you. You need to focus on healing and putting her out of your head. Meet other girls..
xxcrazy_kitty_katxx Posted June 29, 2012 Posted June 29, 2012 Hey hun I wouldn't if I was you I'd wait for if she contacts you I know its hard
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