skyisfalling Posted June 24, 2012 Posted June 24, 2012 (edited) I'm not sure how many of you guys have been following me but my ex used to be MIA for 1 month, immediately after the break up. I didn't even KNOW we were broken up until about 1 week later when I realized he wasn't going to answer my calls or texts back. Well I couldn't take it anymore (it was one of those really bad days for me) and after 1 month of NC, I texted, "The past year have been so great, i'll treasure them forever." 10 minutes later, he texted back, "The past year was great for me too, we'll probably talk in the future, but for now, take care." So that's it. I guess its closure, but now, I'm back at square 1 where I started. I feel like utter s*** and im lost more than ever. Edited June 24, 2012 by skyisfalling
Svet74 Posted June 24, 2012 Posted June 24, 2012 Be happy that you got your answer and closure.. Really
DMS Posted June 24, 2012 Posted June 24, 2012 Hang in there sky! I was at the beach today both to clear my head and to get in the hang of mingling with women again ( losing 40 pounds seemed to have helped in this area as it affected both my confidence and appearance). As I was walking down the beach the lyrics to a song I have not heard in years popped into my head and I started to really miss my ex. I stopped and wrote our initials in the sand. What I noticed next changed my outlook completely. A wave came through and erased the letters that I had written but you could still barely make out where they used to be. And I thought about how it feels like a deep wound now but know that time and our tears will smooth things over and all that remains will be our memories of the relationship. Remember that you have a lot of people here pulling for you and with you every step of the way. 1
Author skyisfalling Posted June 24, 2012 Author Posted June 24, 2012 Hang in there sky! I was at the beach today both to clear my head and to get in the hang of mingling with women again ( losing 40 pounds seemed to have helped in this area as it affected both my confidence and appearance). As I was walking down the beach the lyrics to a song I have not heard in years popped into my head and I started to really miss my ex. I stopped and wrote our initials in the sand. What I noticed next changed my outlook completely. A wave came through and erased the letters that I had written but you could still barely make out where they used to be. And I thought about how it feels like a deep wound now but know that time and our tears will smooth things over and all that remains will be our memories of the relationship. Remember that you have a lot of people here pulling for you and with you every step of the way. Thanks DMS.. I'm still so shocked and jealous that you lost 40 pounds!! I'm going to the gym and i barely lost 5. haha, good for you! It's so sad and it pains me that he feels absolutely nothing and I feel so much pain.. if only the pain were equally divided. I of course made a great mistake by groveling and asking to please talk to me and now i hit rock bottom. The good news is there is only one way to go from here which is up-- since i've already hit bottom. sigh.
DMS Posted June 24, 2012 Posted June 24, 2012 That is very true. And you have already done a month of NC so you know what it takes to make it work. Just keep doing the things that got you that far and you will be in great shape.
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