jw32802 Posted July 14, 2004 Posted July 14, 2004 Girls what we have here is narcisistic commitment phobics,...have you read about this on lifted hearts network? there is a whole ebook on it
Megan5P Posted July 17, 2004 Posted July 17, 2004 Hey guys - it's been six weeks since the end of my relationship. I have gone back and read everything from my first original post and let me say this. I am totally over him. The first four weeks were so hard - I was delusional and suffering from such low self esteem. I wanted him back, missed him, could only remember the good times, etc. This message board prevented me from sending all the letters I started writing (thank GOD!!!). Best thing I ever did was NOT contact him. Now that time has passed I've fully recovered and now I think "What on earth did I ever see in him in the first place?". I am almost embarrassed I was involved with the fool. I snapped out of it. Looking back I clearly see how caught up I was in his mind games. It's scary how men like this try to control and manipulate. Now that time has passed I have recovered and have no desire to even be friends with him or keep in touch. I don't miss him and I no longer love him or care about him. It took some time and alot of soul searching when I left him but I am so proud of having the intelligence to get out of that relationship and take care of myself and give myself the chance to find someone more deserving of my time and love. Don't ever settle and if he can't give you respect - he's not worth it at any cost. Demand respect!!!! I am so much happier now - I've been eating right, exercising and I look and feel great. My self esteem has returned and more than anything I realize I'll never, ever let a guy like that manipulate or control me again. I can't believe I was with him as long as I was...........he was a huge mistake but he taught me alot about what I DON'T want in a man. It's amazing when you step out of that situation and give yourself time to heal - you come back to reality and ask yourself "What was I thinking?". I was with the biggest jackass and now when I think about him I just feel sorry for him and pity him. It's a good place to be!
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