brokenheart73 Posted July 2, 2004 Posted July 2, 2004 I was replaces by my boyfriend so quickly. I had to kick my boyfriend out because i found that he was cheating on me and he was an alcoholic. I asked him to get an apartment so he could figure things out with hisself and try to get hisself back together. I have 2 kids 3 and 9 and i did not want them to see this all the time the fighting and the bickering. I got him the apt and he said that i could still come up and see him. One day i did and he said to go get him a beer i said that i do not support your bad habit and he told me to leave so i gave him a kiss goodbye he still said that he loved me. Well a couple of weeks went by and i went up there again to discuss bday parties for the boys. When i went up there i saw hickies all over his neck i asked him what the hell are those and he said does it matter. I asked if he was sleeping with her and he said yes. I was broken hearted. I fell to the ground almost with my arm numb and tingling. I ran home and was so hurt. I have not heard from him in a while until he called one day and asked me how i was doing. He said that he was coming down to see the kids. i said ok. Well he came down walked right in my house and said that he loved me and wanted to work things out with me when i told him cool ill tell the girl he said no i dont want to start trouble? ok what the hell does that mean. So i watched him leave while he went up to her because she lives with him. I was really hurt. He moved her in the first day he slept with her and they say when a man is told to leave or is broken up with someone they tend to get scared and find someone else right away. I took it as that. He still plays with my mind and keeps me hanging in case they do not work out. She is still in school he is 24. I did not want to break up i just wanted him to notice how much damage he was doing to me and the kids his family. I need to know what the hell to do. He keeps playing mind games on me like he still wants me and he goes and lies to her saying that he never said those things to me. I had to move home because i lost my job due to him or her calling my work and saying that i dont want to work there anymore what a dirty trick i have 2 kids to raise and i want my own place. He thinks that he is going to try to move and move in on me when i have my feet on the ground and im back in the game. I try to stay strong it will be hard when he tries this. But i need to think how he is treating me now like me and the kids dont even exist he chose her over us and it really hurts. That is not a man please help me!!!!
supermom Posted July 2, 2004 Posted July 2, 2004 Please do not go back to him! He is using you still and when they break up you will be the first person he goes to because he knows you will let him! I would have a chat w/ the girl anyway and not care what he thinks. Who the hell is he? Well he came down walked right in my house and said that he loved me and wanted to work things out with me she needs to know this! i lost my job due to him or her calling my work and saying that i dont want to work there anymore what a dirty trick i have 2 kids to raise and i want my own place. Someone who doesn't care about you or your kids. Please just drop him, he's a cheater, an alcoholic, and a user. You and your kids deserve much better than that!
Author brokenheart73 Posted July 2, 2004 Author Posted July 2, 2004 Ahe already knows about this i tried to tell her and she called me a liar because he got her to believe that i t did not happen he is a great compulsive liar. Even my mom was there when he said it so i have no leg to stand on he beat me at his own game.
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