sz17 Posted June 24, 2012 Posted June 24, 2012 i've never had a gf and am completely inexperienced with girls. i'm so clueless about what to do...!!! all this happened awhile ago, but it's left me really conflicted! sorry this is LOOOOoooOOOOONG. over spring break, i went to florida with a group of guys. we met a large group of girls that go to the same university as us. all of the girls were ridiculously pretty, but i particularly liked 2 girls that I'll call Amy and Jaimie. the cutest one (i'll call her "Amy") asked for my number casually so we could hang out over the trip. she said that i had really long and pretty eyelashes (a compliment???) when we met up with Amy again, i was really drunk and don't remember as much. but she held my hand with interlocking fingers when we walked on the beach with her friends. for some reason, her friend was talking about how she gave her boyfriend lap dances (don't quite remember why haha). i said that i never had one before, then Amy said that she would give me a lap dance!! i think i got really nervous after that and the conversation somehow moved on. after spring break she chatted with me on facebook and invited me to a party. she gave me a really tight squeeze hug when i saw her at the party, and then another one when i left. my friend said that she kept looking at me a lot when we were beer pong partners, but i don't really trust this friend's judgement when it comes to girls. i noticed that she is also very flirty with other guys and takes many really close pictures with guys (like while hugging them) on facebook. she is single right now. i think her group of friends might just be really flirty. another girl (i'll call her Jaimie) sent a lot of flirty texts over spring break. over the week, she grabbed my hand a lot to pull me all over the hotel and the beach. some of the other girls did this too, so i'm starting to think holding hands doesn't really mean much in this group. then Jaimie started texting me like everyday for awhile when we got back from break. She is single also. at one point i was helping another girl in the group carry a heavy cooler, and the girl linked arms with me. she gave me a compliment, then said "but i think that Jaimie likes you more." soooooo yeah. i was drunk then too and the rest of the conversation is vague, but i distinctly remember that line. basically i didn't make any more progress after spring break. we met up a few times, but only for short durations. the school year ended soon after that, and i haven't talked to either since. i feel like i wasted the best chance i ever had. both of these girls seem way out of my league, and i kinda got a crush on both of them. I like Amy a bit more though. i also don't know if either of them like me for sure. i'm afraid to commit to one and get shot down. Then it would be weird to pursue the other girl, since they are in the same friend group. Also, I would be completely fine staying friends with both of them if they aren't interested in me romantically, since we still get along really well (plus my current group of friends has ZERO single girls, and that doesn't seem to be changing anytime soon lol). I'd like to see both of them again, but it's hard since we have 2 different friend groups. How should i go about this situation next semester????
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