MayleneHallelujah09 Posted June 24, 2012 Posted June 24, 2012 My ex boyfriend of 2 1/2 years broke up with me over 4 months ago and I am just wondering if anyone else on here has found love again after a breakup. I feel like there is no way I could ever feel what I felt/(feel?) for my ex ever again. Is it possible or did I blow my only chance? -Thanks
biogirl05 Posted June 24, 2012 Posted June 24, 2012 (edited) i found love again after my first major breakup (after a relationship that lasted years). actually just a few months later and in the new relationship the love was more real. I"m sure it's possible to find love again it just doesn't feel like it right now Edited June 24, 2012 by biogirl05
DuchessKaye Posted June 24, 2012 Posted June 24, 2012 It's very situational, but yes, it's possible to find true love more than once. And sometimes, you get more than one love at the same time! 1
eunpa Posted June 24, 2012 Posted June 24, 2012 There are 7 billion people in this world. It is a myth to believe that there is only one person in the world for anyone. Like how eating carrots will keep you from having glasses, or that running a fan all night while you sleep will kill you (yes that's a thing). When you find someone you connect with and it doesn't work out it's easy to get tunnel vision and think there isn't anyone else in the world who could be like them. You have to acknowledge what was good and bad and move on to see if something else is out there. Sometimes, it's possible that later you will find that that person was the one for you. Maybe you'll get back together, but it's rare. Don't count on that happening like you wouldn't count on winning the lottery. Continue to go on with the rest of your life as best you can and don't be afraid to move on. Do things for yourself you wouldn't have before. I'm going through a breakup too, but it's not my first. Don't let it cripple you. Keep going.
AlexanderJames Posted June 24, 2012 Posted June 24, 2012 (edited) My ex boyfriend of 2 1/2 years broke up with me over 4 months ago and I am just wondering if anyone else on here has found love again after a breakup. I feel like there is no way I could ever feel what I felt/(feel?) for my ex ever again. Is it possible or did I blow my only chance? -Thanks If true love is real then no. It is not possible to find it more than once. But if this is the case then you haven't experienced true love yet. Because true love is forever. Rest assured almost everyone feels this during a breakup. I've had 3 major heartbreaks in my life and I felt it every time. Like they where my soul mate and that I was going to be forever alone with out them. But then I just reminded myself that I felt the exact same way the breakup before. And the time before that. And both times I went on to find someone even better, and even though I haven't found "true love" yet and I've been hurt really bad along the way it's made me wise and I've got many fond memories to cherish. It's all a learning experience, learn about life and most importantly about yourself. You have so many wonderful things waiting for you out there. Your next chapter will be even more exciting and special than chapters gone. But you can't discover it if you keep going back and re reading the last Edited June 24, 2012 by AlexanderJames 1
Ruby65 Posted June 24, 2012 Posted June 24, 2012 My ex boyfriend of 2 1/2 years broke up with me over 4 months ago and I am just wondering if anyone else on here has found love again after a breakup. I feel like there is no way I could ever feel what I felt/(feel?) for my ex ever again. Is it possible or did I blow my only chance? -Thanks I've felt this way after every breakup I've ever had. Absolutely devastated. Convinced I'd never have that kind of connection with another human being, ever again. That I had lost my only chance. YES, you do fall in love again and feel EXACTLY as much love the next time -- more even, if that's possible, because I think you appreciate something more after having lost it!!! I was married 20 years, divorced, dated, fallen in love, been dumped, lather rinse repeat hahahahhaaa -- through the ringer, several times! After all this..... I feel like the man I'm with now really IS the love of my life. We'll see.....
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