rd1978 Posted July 2, 2004 Posted July 2, 2004 ok so we have been broken up for like uh 9-10 weeks,, she was hanging out with another guy that was interested ,,{ he is def not anything special} just something new.... so anyway basically she keept trying to keep contact with me during the whole time,, at the very moment we broke up i told her NOT to call me ,, and to do whatever she could not to because,, if she truly meant what she was sayig then there is no reason to talk not for a long while anyway so she called for 1 0r 2 times a week for like 5 weeks,, but i never awnsered,,, then finally 1 day i did and we talked for like 10 out of13 days,,, on instant messanger or the phone,,,didnt get into the relaionship just talked about things.... then like last fri it seemed like she was trying to get me to hang out... but i told her i had plans,,, then i decided to not go on instant messanger so much to see if she would call and she did,, 4 days later and she was asking me what i was doing that night etc.. then asking if i had a tennis raquette and saying how bored she was,,,{ it was obvious she wanted to hang out} but we didnt just ended up talking for a while,,, { i dont even know if she is still seeing this kid or not,, or if they were even togethor in the first place.... Then we got on the subject of this kid we knew and i had told her he was trying to get with this girl that had like me in the past,,, so she just aboiut went nuts,,, she was like how much do you talk to her ,, you probally hooked up with her by now... she's ugly she is grose and nasty,,, she must have said that like 10 times..... she is like she is probally really easy because she wants you .... she was being really rude,,, and the fact is this girl in not ugly or gross or any of that,, she is really nice and has a good head on her shoulders,, and i never did anything with her... there was no reason to say that,, first off she broke up with me to hang out with some other prick who is not good looking !!!! so who in the hell is she to say anything, i mean she is really insecure,, but i didnt say a word about the kid she was with ,, i havent called her 1 time in the 2 months we have been split she has probally called me like 20 times but i dont give any fellings just talk to her like a friend,, although she does try and get info out of me,, she even made some comment about me leaving her ,, which made no sense,,, i have no clue what she is looking for it seems like she wants to work thing out but i could be totally wrong ,, like i said i ahvent calle her 1 time she has been doing all the conctact i mean she tried to call me 4 times yesterday but i didnt awnser i was pissed at the way she was acting the night before,,, SHE set me free she needs to deal with that fact ,,
HokeyReligions Posted July 13, 2004 Posted July 13, 2004 Why are you asking us what someone else wants? Ask HER. She's the only one who can tell you. The next time you talk or email or whatever, just ask her. "Are you trying to get back together with me?" She is acting jealous. If you don't want to get back together with her (doesn't sound like a good idea to me) then tell her that getting together is out of the question. You have moved on. If she starts bashing someone, tell her not to because you don't want to hear it.
Author rd1978 Posted July 13, 2004 Author Posted July 13, 2004 yeah i know she is the only one that can tell me ,,,, BUt i was just wondering on opinions,,and i understand that you onyl know a little of the story from 1 point of view,,,,,, im basically just about to ask her what she wants ,,, because i cant deal with the this immature bullsh*t..... if you want to be with someone else or go have your fun then,, DO it and leave me alone,,, im just really baffled by the fact of how much she calls and instant messages me,, considering i havent called her 1 single time, or wrote her 1 single time in 3 months,,, people said she wants to have her cake and eat it to ,, or string me along,,, but she has no clue if im with,, or hanging out with anyone else,,, and i havent given her any feelings ,, i just awnser some or most of the time she calls,,or writes,, but not always,,, and she asked me yesterday if i was avoiding her... because i havent awnsered some of her calls..... alot of people also said it sounds like she thinks she made a mistake and might want to work things out,, but is unshure to what i feel about the situation,,,,,knowing i mgiht now feel the same way..... WELL i think its about time for her to get out of her fantasy world,,, im going to find out what she wants,,, and if she doesnt want to be friends or work it out then she is going to have to leave me alone,, because i told her from the start she cant contact me if she doesnt want to be with me............. esp if we are hanging out with other people.....
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