HurtPup Posted July 2, 2004 Posted July 2, 2004 And I was doing so well. I was rationizing my emotions, and making some head-way. I think what I was doing was trying to convince myself certain things didn't bother me. I've been holding alot in fooling myself into thinking that I'm fine. Well I'm clearly not. Me and him and been trying to maintain a friendship, we even met for lunch last week. Today, we spoke on the computer and as hard as I tried not to question him, acuse him, etc..it all came out. He signed off w/o saying goodbye, so I called. And it got uglier, I couldn't stop myself. He hung up on me. I left messages, he won't call me back. I only want him to call so I can tell him I cannot be his friend anymore. It won't ever work. We still care about each other too much. But he won't call me back...and i'm at work, unable to work, unable to think of anything else...I'm a mess....ALL OVER AGAIN. I feel like all the progress I made just went down the toilet. I'm crying over him again! I wanted so bad to keep him in my life..I can't bear the thought of never having contact..it hurts too much..even tough it was me that wanted the break-up. Being he won't call...I need to let it out somewhere..so I came here
meanttolive4ever Posted July 2, 2004 Posted July 2, 2004 i know i went through the same thing...i was doing good....3 weeks without seeing my ex and boom he walks into my work...with his sister....omg i freaked...but then he started trying to flirt with me...it pissed me off more...
supermom Posted July 2, 2004 Posted July 2, 2004 Maybe you shoudl email him. on the subject line put "my last email to you" Put it all out, let him know that because you do care, and because you feel like you don't want to lose his friendship that maybe you two should back off until both of you can get over the hurt, anger, etc. This should show him that you are sorry, but you are still hurting and that you need to have time to get over him so that another outburst like that does not happen. It will show him you are not going to be clingy, but you are looking out for #1 (yourself) and that you need to get over this. Tell him someday, this will be a thing of the past, I don't want to lose your friendship, so this is the best way Then end it with someday your friend, your name. Just an idea I would try if I were in your shoes. Goodluck
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