desertsessions Posted June 23, 2012 Posted June 23, 2012 (edited) My ex sent a message last year, asking for some stuff I had of hers. Long story short, I ignored her. I've been sitting on it for months, and months about whether to mail her stuff back to her, and some money I owed. I've felt bad about it for ages now that I denied her request. So I've sent it today! Finally. I was going to send her a quick message, just to let her know it's on the way (haven't spoken in a year). I get home...and I'm just sitting here debating whether sending anything at all is even worth it now...I had been thinking for months what I would even say, how I would apologize for being a jerk to her...Now I'm thinking in terms of actions speak louder than words...and maybe I shouldn't even say anything? The only gripe I have with it is...what if she moved? I doubt it though since her parents just moved there in the summer of 09'. It feels good to finally man up though. When I think of how immature I used to be, it almost makes me sick. Would you guys send a quick message? Edited June 23, 2012 by desertsessions
Author desertsessions Posted June 24, 2012 Author Posted June 24, 2012 Honest question though guys. Do you think it would be good for me to say something, and apologize for everything. Or does silence, and just doing the right thing weigh in heavier? Girls and guys opinions welcome.
Stanza Posted June 24, 2012 Posted June 24, 2012 I think we should always apologize for anything in life if we want to. a) because that means we've done the decent thing for the other person b) for ourselves c) the other person may be very grateful to hear 'sorry'. It can be a big deal. Just say you weren't ready to say it until now because you hurt bad and go for it imo... good luck!
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