loveisabitc Posted June 23, 2012 Posted June 23, 2012 It,s just a thoughts that goes trough my mind. I broke up with girl few weeks back and we stayed as friends, so recently we decided to take NC phase and now I,m sitting here and thinking. Even when we broke up I still cared for here, there was things I did for here that I knew I had to do (charing her up, helping with home things, improving things in I was bad etc.) and the question is - does she actually cared about that. She always told thanks and so on, but did she actually mean it ? When we were together I wasnt the guy who sits in chair watches football when girl does everything..no, I did the home stuff, repaired stuff .... u got the point. I understand about brake up if I would be heartless bastard and lazy.... but when it came to brake up she mostly talked about my bad things that she didnt like. When I was saying about the good stuff what I did for here that I cared for here she replied - thanxs.... and continued about things what was bad about me. So I thinx back about all this and question rises, does she actually cared about this things. Does women actually cares that guy is sacrificeing for her or they care only about some inner deep feelings or something. I know that it doesnt work like that - someone appears and immediately everybody is happy and in love, no its the things u do and shove her that u care. Ok I know I,m not perfect, no one is, same for her, there was some things I didnt liked and a lot I liked and i believe that if something is wrong in relationship both have to talk about it and need to fix it.....just in my case it was fast forward - breake up and thats it So now I,m in this NC phase and there are lots of things that crosses my mind...maybe gonna post something else too.
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