drivingmyselfcrazy Posted June 23, 2012 Posted June 23, 2012 Okay.... this might be absolutely ridiculous. But I am drunk right now and this is driving me up the wall... Okay so... my partner and I obviously have a long distance thing until late September of this year when we will finally be around one another. SO... my problem is we haven't had phone sex in like over a month and that is driving me up the wall but he is copping really well... ANYWAY... my problem is I'll be at work on aim to talk to him because our hours are different as I live on the other side of the world. So sometimes he will talk dirty to me and get me worked up to the point of (ohhh dear lord i need to get home or somewhere alone so we can phone one another and sort this out) so he'll do this knowing I am at work... then I'm all oh i'll be home in an hour and he'll say 'i'm going to bed' then I get so pissed off...... this has happens a bunch of times and he knows I get mad about him I tell him and hes all " im sorry it's late I have work' anyway... today really drove me insane. So we are both at home alone and he started talking dirty to me and I was like OH YES we get to be on the phone together and sort this out blahblah.... Then he's like "oh I can't my sister is here and we are about to go out" REALLY? WHAT THE HELL MAN!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!? then why in the hell are you turning me on then leaving me? AGAIN???? this is what I want to know why is he doing this to me? I'm going crazy and I adore him but what the **** I need to get offfffffffffffffffffff I just pretty much sent him an email going ape**** so when he reads it he will get upset when he reads it. But can someone please help me? or am I just having the worst timing ever? Or is he messing with me on purpose? HELP HELP HELP once again I am drunk and sorry if none of this makes sense. If someone could write back asap I would appricate it.
cerridwen Posted June 23, 2012 Posted June 23, 2012 (edited) I love this post. He may be teasing you for the jolt it gives him too; a little zing to end (or start?) his day. He may do it to keep your sexual interest. Or, he could simply have bad timing. Whatever the reason, talk to him and arrange a convenient time to..."talk." Explain the frustration his teasing causes but don't hammer him for it. It's good he's keeping the spark alive. He's perhaps just a little TOO good at it. Now, go sober up! Edited June 23, 2012 by cerridwen 6
Author drivingmyselfcrazy Posted June 23, 2012 Author Posted June 23, 2012 I love this post. He may be teasing you for the jolt it gives him too; a little zing to end (or start?) his day. He may do it to keep your sexual interest. Or, he could simply have bad timing. Whatever the reason, talk to him and arrange a convenient time to..."talk." Explain the frustration his teasing causes but don't hammer him for it. It's good he's keeping the spark alive. He's perhaps just a little TOO good at it. Now, go sober up! Oh gee, I am glad you are getting a kick out of it! hahahah I am dying over here! WELL.... I just feel like strangling him right now. He is good at working me up then being all YEAHHHH, gotta go now. UGHHHHH I hope you are right. Soooooo frustrating!!!!!! Still not sober hahahaha
Avis Posted June 24, 2012 Posted June 24, 2012 SO... my problem is we haven't had phone sex in like over a month and that is driving me up the wall but he is copping really well... ANYWAY... my problem is Hey girl, I know how you feel, was in LDR for more than 2 years (we are together now), but hey seriously do you really need him to be on the phone to help yourself out?
justwhoiam Posted July 9, 2012 Posted July 9, 2012 As bad as it may sound... next time you meet him, make him really horny and then leave That will work better than any explanation. 1
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