funnykitty28 Posted June 23, 2012 Posted June 23, 2012 Just when I was getting used to being on my own (since June 2), getting along with the ex, letting him see the kids whenever and enjoying me time I went snooping. I havent been snooping for awhile so not sure what made me yesterday but i went and checked his emails trash been and I find two emails to someone i never heard of, and all it was was a movie attachment. I thought oh maybe he sent a video of the kids to someone. Opened it and it was a video of himself professing his love to this girl, saying he loves her with all his heart, he always will and will never forget what they had and always hoped they would be together no matter how long it took. My world was shattered and still is, words that this man in 10 years has never said to my face! I felt my heart get ripped out of me, everything made sense, how he just lost feelings for me. I knew he confided in someone and had a emotional affair but i thought it stopped months ago. I confronted him and he said its not wait it seems and he regreted it as soon as he sent it and told her to delete it. That he was confused and alone and didnt know what to. He has never met this girl, lives 3000 miles away in another country. doesnt really know what she looks like. and he says he just recently realized these feelings. I confronted her and she says its not what it seems she doesnt feel the same and made it clear to him and that in fact she is a lesbian. My husband has been feeling distant from me for awhile but the fact that this person was in the picture prevented him for giving me everything. I don't know what to believe anymore, and everyone still says he will come back cause he knows what he did was wrong. But how do you forget this? how do you ever forgive this? i am sick to my stomach and dont know how to move on and just let him be.
2sunny Posted June 23, 2012 Posted June 23, 2012 Just when I was getting used to being on my own (since June 2), getting along with the ex, letting him see the kids whenever and enjoying me time I went snooping. I havent been snooping for awhile so not sure what made me yesterday but i went and checked his emails trash been and I find two emails to someone i never heard of, and all it was was a movie attachment. I thought oh maybe he sent a video of the kids to someone. Opened it and it was a video of himself professing his love to this girl, saying he loves her with all his heart, he always will and will never forget what they had and always hoped they would be together no matter how long it took. My world was shattered and still is, words that this man in 10 years has never said to my face! I felt my heart get ripped out of me, everything made sense, how he just lost feelings for me. I knew he confided in someone and had a emotional affair but i thought it stopped months ago. I confronted him and he said its not wait it seems and he regreted it as soon as he sent it and told her to delete it. That he was confused and alone and didnt know what to. He has never met this girl, lives 3000 miles away in another country. doesnt really know what she looks like. and he says he just recently realized these feelings. I confronted her and she says its not what it seems she doesnt feel the same and made it clear to him and that in fact she is a lesbian. My husband has been feeling distant from me for awhile but the fact that this person was in the picture prevented him for giving me everything. I don't know what to believe anymore, and everyone still says he will come back cause he knows what he did was wrong. But how do you forget this? how do you ever forgive this? i am sick to my stomach and dont know how to move on and just let him be. No reason to believe a word he says because he evidently is a good liar! Is his OW married? If so, call her husband! Do a search! And don't believe her either! She may just be telling you she's a lesbian - its certainly a good cover... But I'm not buying it! Has he sent her money? Did he make plans to see her? I wouldnt trust him - he hasn't earned ANY trust back - and it doesnt look like he's trying to get honest at all.
jmjacobs31 Posted June 26, 2012 Posted June 26, 2012 i would not believe him. I think he is lying to save his butt and so is the other girl. kick his sorry lying ass to the curb! once a liar always a liar!
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