hellopack Posted June 23, 2012 Posted June 23, 2012 So I know its an old cliche, but instead of being into the nice decent girls I meet, I seem to have falled to for a bad girl. I will try to keep it short. Basically, I am a pretty straight forward guy, decent job, really good friends, great social life, like going out on nights out etc. I meet lots of nice girls but no-one I seem to be that into. I met this girl at the start of 2010. We were dating casually for a while, then after a couple of months she ended. I wasnt that fussed. We stayed friends catching up occasionally. Then this year we start dating again and have been ever since. It was nice and relaxed, we tend to see each other a couple of times a week, go out for dinner etc, its nice. We only once had the chat about our relationship, it was a bit awkward, but we agreed we wouldnt see other people. Anyway, i could go on and on about the faults of this girl but I wont bore you with the details, however to sum it up I know she is a bad catch and no good for me. I am pretty straightforward, but for some reason I cant let go even though logically I know I should and everyone tells me I should! A while ago, she was very keen wanting suggesting going away for a weekend etc, now she is acting a bit cold, and I get the impression she is not that into me but uses me as a back up. The thing is, I am acting like a bit of a mug, I like to help her with things, but feel she doesn not appreciate it, and is a bit selfish and would never give anything back. Surely others have been in this postion, what do you think I should do. I am bit scared that if I talk to her, I may push her away. At the end of the day, I feel like I know I shouldnt be with her and dont want to be, but at the same time, dont want to be without her! Aaaargh, so confusing!
ariadne999 Posted June 23, 2012 Posted June 23, 2012 (edited) So I know its an old cliche, but instead of being into the nice decent girls I meet, I seem to have falled to for a bad girl..... A while ago, she was very keen wanting suggesting going away for a weekend etc, now she is acting a bit cold, and I get the impression she is not that into me but uses me as a back up. The thing is, I am acting like a bit of a mug, I like to help her with things, but feel she doesn not appreciate it, and is a bit selfish and would never give anything back. don't worry you're fine. However if you were a woman you'd be burned at the stake for dating douchebags while nice guys have to jerk off all day. so no worries! You're all good to bang away. why don't you find some ugly girl to have as a FWB and you can cry on her shoulder about it!!! Meanwhile waste all yoru time and energy on some girl who always cause you heartache. then when the bad girl cheats on you, come h ere and complain. It's not your fault you didn't see the signs...you couldn't help it. it's only women who need to have a good "people picker" as you will read on LS have fun! Edited June 23, 2012 by ariadne999
ariadne999 Posted June 23, 2012 Posted June 23, 2012 S I meet lots of nice girls but no-one I seem to be that into. so you've rejected nice normal girls? OK somedude,,,,see there you go. proof women don't have it as good as you think
pteromom Posted June 23, 2012 Posted June 23, 2012 I know she is a bad catch and no good for me. In what way? What do you mean by "bad girl"?
fishtaco Posted June 23, 2012 Posted June 23, 2012 Captain, I've detected a large amount of anger in this sector! 1
ThaWholigan Posted June 23, 2012 Posted June 23, 2012 Captain, I've detected a large amount of anger in this sector! Captain: "Is it Negative Nancy?" fishtaco: "No, it's much worse!!"
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