Hereiam007 Posted June 22, 2012 Posted June 22, 2012 Hi. Thanks in advance for reading and any advice. My female friend 49 just broke up with With her on and off relationship to a man of 58 years old. Somebody who she wanted to spend her whole life with him. I am 47 years old. She loves me so much as a friend. I spent the days giving her advice and I known her for about 2 months on a dating site. We live in the same town. She has told me she needs space to sort things out and to spend time alone even from me as a friend. This is what I wil do for her. She already said to me that she would be with me and sleep with me it she loves her ex still. We were planning for the future as friends and who knows more, such as living on a beach house. I know we were just talking and not giving serious thought about it. I guess I just don't like when we were going to spend the whole day together on Saturday that she cancels on me. This person is a 9. I am just so tired of her situation that it is giving me stress one moment she wants to be with him the next she doesn't. I guess I don't understand the female mind. I was thinking that if someone is hurting or grieving then they would want a friend to grieve it through with. And this was/ is my role with her. I just hate to believe that she ditched me for another person to talk to. I am all ideas about her. I guess ts is where I turn to this forum advice in her mind. What is wrong with my thinking? I plan on giving her the space she needs and just wait for her to call me.
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