vtgirl Posted June 22, 2012 Posted June 22, 2012 Long story short- My bf and I have a good relationship. His dog just died, and I found a card that his ex apparently gave him on fathers day...saying some stuff in the card, xoxo (her name). He obviously didnt tell me she gave him a card. Im not sure if they still share a PO box together, or what..but idk what to think. everyone says shes moved on, and he said he has.. Am I completely overthinking this, and I need to get over it??
BetheButterfly Posted June 22, 2012 Posted June 22, 2012 Long story short- My bf and I have a good relationship. His dog just died, and I found a card that his ex apparently gave him on fathers day...saying some stuff in the card, xoxo (her name). He obviously didnt tell me she gave him a card. Im not sure if they still share a PO box together, or what..but idk what to think. everyone says shes moved on, and he said he has.. Am I completely overthinking this, and I need to get over it?? I don't understand. Did the ex say in the letter that the dog died, or was the dog living with your boyfriend? I am very sorry the dog died. :( Is your boyfriend a father?
Author vtgirl Posted June 22, 2012 Author Posted June 22, 2012 She said he was the best dog daddy ever. My bf does not have any human kids.
BetheButterfly Posted June 22, 2012 Posted June 22, 2012 (edited) She said he was the best dog daddy ever. My bf does not have any human kids. Oh I get it now. Ok, so they considered their dog as their child, yes? And the dog died. Ok, no I personally don't think just this card is a huge deal. If he continues to spend time with her, that would be an issue. Dogs are very precious to many people who have them as animal friends. There is a connection there between 2 people just because of a dog. For example, everytime I see a person walking his/her happy dog, I feel a connection with them because dogs are very important to me. I have a dog and I call her my "baby", even though I know she's not. I would feel so horrible if she died. I wouldn't get upset over the card. Rather, I'd try to comfort him, since he lost a good animal friend. The only time I've ever seen my Dad cry, by the way, is when his dog died. Edited June 22, 2012 by BetheButterfly
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