koreice Posted June 22, 2012 Posted June 22, 2012 Hi i have been having jealousy issues with my girlfriend and i need sometips to deal with them i realize i have these issues but in a argument i always feel like im right.. can anyone please help?
aisle_seat Posted June 22, 2012 Posted June 22, 2012 What's happening that's making you jealous? What do you argue about? Going to need some specifics before anyone can give an opinion.
Author koreice Posted June 22, 2012 Author Posted June 22, 2012 What's happening that's making you jealous? What do you argue about? Going to need some specifics before anyone can give an opinion. thanks for replying like for example her being really close with another guy stuff like that. Also it feels like sometimes she doesnt try to make it better when i tell her this bothers me i guess if something she does bothers me but she feels its okay to do she just doesnt try to change and we get into an argument about it. :/
MooBear Posted June 24, 2012 Posted June 24, 2012 thanks for replying like for example her being really close with another guy stuff like that. Also it feels like sometimes she doesnt try to make it better when i tell her this bothers me i guess if something she does bothers me but she feels its okay to do she just doesnt try to change and we get into an argument about it. :/ Is this guy just a friend? Not an ex or anything? If he's just a friend then you should back off on it. She maybe feels you are trying to control her? Organise for you, your gf and this guy to go out for a drink and some pool or something. You might feel better if you spend some time with them together? 1
blasteroid Posted June 24, 2012 Posted June 24, 2012 if shes being super defensive about it thats not good. You need to do your homework on this guy too. She should be reassuring you, not arguing with you... there ARE bounderies for men and women when they're in relationships.
Flyin in Clouds Posted June 30, 2012 Posted June 30, 2012 Is my wife trying to control me by insisting I be monogamous? Am I trying to control her by insisting she be monogamous if I have to be? Of course we are trying to control other people. What is being close with this other guy? Regardless, if it makes you uncomfortable and she cares about you she should stop. If she doesn't about your feelings then she doesn't love you. Move on...
LittlePrince Posted July 2, 2012 Posted July 2, 2012 thanks for replying like for example her being really close with another guy stuff like that. Also it feels like sometimes she doesnt try to make it better when i tell her this bothers me i guess if something she does bothers me but she feels its okay to do she just doesnt try to change and we get into an argument about it. :/ Then she doesn't care about you and this is just a casual relationship for her. Something for right now but not something for later.
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