Author JHparkes Posted June 22, 2012 Author Posted June 22, 2012 I just want to clear a couple of things up ..... I am NOT repulsed by him I later retracted that and saod sometimes he is unattractive to me. I do fantasize about having sex with him... But I'm sometimes really turned off by some features
AD1980 Posted June 22, 2012 Posted June 22, 2012 But I'm sometimes really turned off by some features Which features turn you off?
yongyong Posted June 22, 2012 Posted June 22, 2012 then I don't think you like him enough yet. just wait till see you will forget about those features? Eg: If I like her, I would still adore her abused ugly feet as a ballet dancer. I just want to clear a couple of things up ..... I am NOT repulsed by him I later retracted that and saod sometimes he is unattractive to me. I do fantasize about having sex with him... But I'm sometimes really turned off by some features
Titanwolf Posted June 23, 2012 Posted June 23, 2012 oh my gawd. I sound bitter to you??! well I better go toss myself off a roof cos your opinion of me matters so much. Have fun with that. I won't lose any sleep over it.
Disenchantedly Yours Posted June 23, 2012 Posted June 23, 2012 Do you know how I know you are a typical corn fed, fat, juice dripping, American woman? df chicken im an american man with sound morals. you dont have morals Yongyong, aren't you going to answer your own question? Bahahahaha......
Disenchantedly Yours Posted June 23, 2012 Posted June 23, 2012 JHparkes, I think that you may be keeping up a final barrier between you and this man because you may be afraid of the deeper relationship you know he can bring for you. Sometimes a lot of women think they want a committed relationship but then set up personal obstacles for whatever reason in different ways. Figure out what is going on in you that may be holding you back. I've had a similar experience where I was both attracted and a little replused by this one guy I had an extensive relationship with. It was strange because i WAS really attracted to him. He was not stereotypically hot but I have never been one for stereotypical anyway. Sometimes there are really hot guys that I am not attracted to. We had such a connection that I think a part of me was rebeling. I also think you need to figure out if your replusion to him is based out of a fear of what other people may think or is purely your own. You said you and him flirted at work but when he came to pick you up to go out, you felt that replusion again. Are you afraid of what other people think? If so, you're going to have a hard time in life trying to please everyone. Let go. Enjoy him for who he is. Enjoy what makes you attracted to him and figure out what is blocking you on this other aspect. 1
Author JHparkes Posted June 24, 2012 Author Posted June 24, 2012 JHparkes, I think that you may be keeping up a final barrier between you and this man because you may be afraid of the deeper relationship you know he can bring for you. Sometimes a lot of women think they want a committed relationship but then set up personal obstacles for whatever reason in different ways. Figure out what is going on in you that may be holding you back. I've had a similar experience where I was both attracted and a little replused by this one guy I had an extensive relationship with. It was strange because i WAS really attracted to him. He was not stereotypically hot but I have never been one for stereotypical anyway. Sometimes there are really hot guys that I am not attracted to. We had such a connection that I think a part of me was rebeling. I also think you need to figure out if your replusion to him is based out of a fear of what other people may think or is purely your own. You said you and him flirted at work but when he came to pick you up to go out, you felt that replusion again. Are you afraid of what other people think? If so, you're going to have a hard time in life trying to please everyone. Let go. Enjoy him for who he is. Enjoy what makes you attracted to him and figure out what is blocking you on this other aspect. Hi Disenchantedly Yours, I think I you are right - something is stopping me and putting a barrier there. I need to relax and step back and figure out what I actually want. It might be neither of these guys. This weekend I haven't been able to stop thinking about him, which is strange. And I'm thinking but what is it that equally doesn't want him.
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