Quickfast Posted June 22, 2012 Posted June 22, 2012 A huge part of me thinks that we havent been broken up long enough to justify contacting her about this, but my conscience is eating at me.. No I didn't cheat, but I wasn't there for her when she needed me the most. She was going through a bout of depression and she reached out to me to comfort her the right way. I'll give you an example.. She asked me if we could go to a bar down the street from her house. I could tell something was wrong, she was feeling incredibly lonely and vulnerable in the new college and city she moved to. I can remember the moment exactly like this... She looked at me right in my eyes and her gaze broke because she started to cry softly. In the middle of a crowded bar she tried to pull it together. It looked like she was in agony, and she couldn't come out and tell me directly how she needed my comfort. My stupid ass couldn't think of anything to say. The guilt from this kills me. If I love her so much, how could I abandon her like that? I want to write her an email or a msg and apologize for that moment, mostly so that I can have some peace. Good or bad idea?
Ruby65 Posted June 22, 2012 Posted June 22, 2012 This is a terrible idea. DON'T do it!!! She's broken up with you. The relationship is over! Focus on YOU and your healing. Contact with the ex ONLY brings more pain! Later, when you've moved on and are over her completely, you can always track her down and apologize for anything and everything that you want to.... it'll mean more coming from you then anyway, when you're not motivated by hopes of reconciliation. Write out the email and post it here instead. The people here will help you move past this momentary temptation to make contact! Stay strong. You're doing GREAT.
Author Quickfast Posted June 22, 2012 Author Posted June 22, 2012 i wish i would have checked back sooner! im hoping my motivation is for closure and not completely for reconciliation though. thanks for the support :-)
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