Quickfast Posted June 22, 2012 Posted June 22, 2012 Are good and lasting relationships strategic? Everyone knows that relationships take work, but is there strategy that takes place that I have been ignoring throughout my youth? What are the markers that tell me when to let a person in farther? What are the signs that tell me I can give or put more into that relationship? How does one avoid loving a person too much? Most of all, if there is a strategy involved, is that love even organic at all?
january2011 Posted June 22, 2012 Posted June 22, 2012 Know yourself. What works and what doesn't work. Life is a constant testing of hypotheses, whether you recognise and acknowledge it or not. That is the strategy for everything that we do and we have no choice but to adopt it. We act and react. Thus, in order for there to be love, both partners need to take action and interact in some way, even if it is not directly. We are not silos. If you use Google, you can find a number of strategies on building good and lasting relationships. Those are just guidelines. You have to learn to apply them to your individual situation. That's where knowing yourself comes in handy.
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