p_loves_g Posted July 2, 2004 Posted July 2, 2004 Help! I'm in love with a girl who seems to be playing hard to get. I'm taking her and her sister out for dinner Friday night (I guess that would tonight ). It seems to me that I get more attention from her sister (Although she already has a b/f) I've asked many of her friends what I should do but so far none of them have had much in the sense of encouragement. How can I get her to give me a chance?
annabelle Posted July 2, 2004 Posted July 2, 2004 My advice: Just treat her like the princess that she is. All women love to feel special. Open doors, pull out her chair, chivalry all the way. Make sure that she knows that your attention is completely focused on her. Also, on your way to dinner, stop and pick up a couple of roses-one for her, and one for her sister. This will show her that you know how to be the gentleman. Just remember, though, cheesy as a general rule is not good. Good luck, hope everything goes well!! -Annabelle
tiki Posted July 2, 2004 Posted July 2, 2004 just make sure she doesn't think you're into her sister.
Author p_loves_g Posted July 2, 2004 Author Posted July 2, 2004 Thank you so much!! I know that the advice coming from a woman is something that I can trust....thank you so much , I'll see what happens tonight, once again, thank you Annabelle and Tikibrandy.
Fetish 2 Posted July 3, 2004 Posted July 3, 2004 Hey, This is probably too late but I'll add in my advice anyway... My boyfriend and I got together by playing hard to get with each other. Alot of people don't realise it but girls tend to play hard to get. Now, if you smother her, she will know that she has you on a leesh and trust me--she will get bored easily- not every girl likes the gentle gentleman. Start to play hard to get yourself. Now i know there is more risk in this but in my opnion it will bring about 2 results: 1. Once she realises she can't have you on a silver platter....she will realise how much she wants you, and therefore let her guard down more to ensure she doesnt loose your interest and even start to play the role of persuer. 2. On the other hand, if this causes her to give up on you...she's not into you as much as she should be. If she's not willing to stick to persuing you-she doesnt think the end prize is worth it....this is where you look for a better catch Hope I've given you another perspective and have helped you out a bit. Good luck! xxx Mel
Author p_loves_g Posted July 7, 2004 Author Posted July 7, 2004 Well thanx to the advice of all you fine people it went great, she still playing hard to get but she seems to be a lot more comfortable when we're alone. Just a little more time....I think this is the one, and when you find the ONE you have all the time in the world....if that's what it takes for them to realize it too...
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