RedRobin Posted June 23, 2012 Share Posted June 23, 2012 How are you going to know about his history. I thought you didn't reveal your history so how would you feel if didn't reveal his. His 'history' is written all over him. Men only think they can hide it. Most don't even try. They wave it around like a badge of honor. And about my history... you must be confusing me with someone else. My history is pretty straightforward. I don't have sex with men I'm not in a relationship with, and nearly all of my relationships have lasted a minimum of five years. I've punted a couple in much shorter periods than that for lying or if I find out something about them I can't manage... Link to post Share on other sites
Algermas Posted June 23, 2012 Share Posted June 23, 2012 If you have attractive physical traits, in fact if they're very attractive traits then you need a major personality issue to nullify those physical attributes. An abundance of friendlessness and warmth, being nice - will add and not subtract to this picture. Can I get some of that stuff you've been smoking? Link to post Share on other sites
A O Posted June 23, 2012 Share Posted June 23, 2012 Can I get some of that stuff you've been smoking? Sure - its called life experience. Cost has gone up in recent years but its still widely available. And just to add, when it comes to physical attraction regarding men, I am primarily talking about one's face. A hard, muscle-bound or athletic body won't mean much without a half decent face. Link to post Share on other sites
phineas Posted June 23, 2012 Share Posted June 23, 2012 Seriously, when is the last time you just filled a man's stomach up? I bet he purred like a kitten. A man never forgets a woman's cooking. I'd rather she joined me in the kitchen so we could cook together. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Woggle Posted June 23, 2012 Share Posted June 23, 2012 Another thing is that men tend to want partners who understand them and the way any man on here who speaks honestly about their experiences gets called a woman hater or a bitter and sexually frustrated guy shows that many of the women don't want to understand where a man is coming from. If you want to do better with men try understanding where many are coming from. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Pyro Posted June 23, 2012 Share Posted June 23, 2012 Another thing is that men tend to want partners who understand them and the way any man on here who speaks honestly about their experiences gets called a woman hater or a bitter and sexually frustrated guy shows that many of the women don't want to understand where a man is coming from. If you want to do better with men try understanding where many are coming from. and if you want women to understand you then you (men in general) need to open up some. Link to post Share on other sites
utterer of lies Posted June 23, 2012 Share Posted June 23, 2012 I don't think I've even turned men off by demanding emotions too soon, in fact, I'm pretty picky, not one of those women who just want a relationship. no way! It just seems to me like most men (maybe it's the type I go for) are all just about sex sex sex...having as much sexual fun as they can and postpone the idea of having anything with substance. I think you mix up two things. We want only sex from girls we consider below our personal level for a relationship. But even if I meet the perfect woman with a great intellect and incredible humor who has a PhD in an interesting field and is a famous artist - I would still want sex with her in order for her to qualify for a relationship. Sexual compatibility is just a non-negotiable prerequisite for anything more serious. Link to post Share on other sites
Algermas Posted June 23, 2012 Share Posted June 23, 2012 and if you want women to understand you then you (men in general) need to open up some. We do understand women, every time we've opened up we've been burned you see. Link to post Share on other sites
Pyro Posted June 23, 2012 Share Posted June 23, 2012 We do understand women, every time we've opened up we've been burned you see. and I understand them too. Heartbreak happens and is a part of life. Take some time to heal and try again and quit b*tching. Speaking in general terms Link to post Share on other sites
Algermas Posted June 23, 2012 Share Posted June 23, 2012 and I understand them too. Heartbreak happens and is a part of life. Take some time to heal and try again and quit b*tching. Now that's just silly talk, once you understand women you don't keep trying to alter reality. You play the game to your advantage. Link to post Share on other sites
Pyro Posted June 23, 2012 Share Posted June 23, 2012 Now that's just silly talk, once you understand women you don't keep trying to alter reality. You play the game to your advantage. and if you think of it as one big game then your reality is altered. Link to post Share on other sites
Algermas Posted June 23, 2012 Share Posted June 23, 2012 and if you think of it as one big game then your reality is altered. It is one big game, like all games there are winners and there are losers. Link to post Share on other sites
Pyro Posted June 23, 2012 Share Posted June 23, 2012 if it makes you feel better to think that then more power to you. Link to post Share on other sites
Woggle Posted June 23, 2012 Share Posted June 23, 2012 I don't of it as one big game. I just think need to be really careful and do their homework on a woman before they let her in. I found a woman worth opening up to but I had to go through a lot of crap to get her and I know Pyro went through a lot of crap before he got to where he is so I wish he would be more sympathetic to his fellow men. Link to post Share on other sites
Pyro Posted June 23, 2012 Share Posted June 23, 2012 I don't of it as one big game. I just think need to be really careful and do their homework on a woman before they let her in. I found a woman worth opening up to but I had to go through a lot of crap to get her and I know Pyro went through a lot of crap before he got to where he is so I wish he would be more sympathetic to his fellow men. I am sympathetic towards those men who actually are trying to improve themselves instead of just trying to spread their hate. You over dramatize everything. Link to post Share on other sites
Author mesmerized Posted June 23, 2012 Author Share Posted June 23, 2012 I don't of it as one big game. I just think need to be really careful and do their homework on a woman before they let her in. I found a woman worth opening up to but I had to go through a lot of crap to get her and I know Pyro went through a lot of crap before he got to where he is so I wish he would be more sympathetic to his fellow men. :rolleyes: You speak as if men are all such great people. We probably go through much worse and still not find that man:lmao: Anyways, I need real responses regarding my original question, please don't make this a woggle, SD or verzhen thread, thanks! Link to post Share on other sites
Woggle Posted June 23, 2012 Share Posted June 23, 2012 There are good and bad in both genders but our society still sees things as women=victim and men=victimizer. The point is that Pyro and I in many ways have common ground and common experiences yet most of the time he sides with the opposite sex. Link to post Share on other sites
Pyro Posted June 23, 2012 Share Posted June 23, 2012 There are good and bad in both genders but our society still sees things as women=victim and men=victimizer. The point is that Pyro and I in many ways have common ground and common experiences yet most of the time he sides with the opposite sex. you purposely choose to stick with that side of society. You purposely search for online message boards and articles to correctly prove your fears and then when you find them you come on here and say 'I told you so' because the number of men who attempt to spread their hate of the opposite sex outnumbers the number of women who do the same. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Woggle Posted June 23, 2012 Share Posted June 23, 2012 you purposely choose to stick with that side of society. You purposely search for online message boards and articles to correctly prove your fears and then when you find them you come on here and say 'I told you so' because the number of men who attempt to spread their hate of the opposite sex outnumbers the number of women who do the same. Maybe on this board but I can show you some misandrist stuff that makes stuff like this look like childs play. Link to post Share on other sites
Pyro Posted June 23, 2012 Share Posted June 23, 2012 Maybe on this board but I can show you some misandrist stuff that makes stuff like this look like childs play. I am not like you. I don't care nor do I need to search for anything like that. Start actually trying to improve your feelings towards the opposite sex and you will have my sympathy. Link to post Share on other sites
William Posted June 23, 2012 Share Posted June 23, 2012 Sorry for the intrusion but this thread appears to be indexing posts improperly. Clicking on page three in 40 posts per page view takes me back to page one. I'm seeing posts in this reply box that I can't see during regular thread viewing. Anyone else having this issue? I noted it earlier but came back to it just now and found the same problem. Link to post Share on other sites
ThaWholigan Posted June 23, 2012 Share Posted June 23, 2012 I am not like you. I don't care nor do I need to search for anything like that. Start actually trying to improve your feelings towards the opposite sex and you will have my sympathy. I read a lot of heinous stuff sometimes, and it does not affect the way I view the world at large. The thread has derailed long enough, although I could not contribute myself I was enjoying reading this thread until it became the usual 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Pyro Posted June 23, 2012 Share Posted June 23, 2012 Now my question is, if intimate sexual acts doesn't make guys feel bonding/loving emotions, then what does??? giving them a 3 course meal? :lmao:I'm kind of confused about men and their emotional side, specially men older than 25. To me it seems like younger guys are more affected by emotions and are more likely to fall for a woman. The older they get, the less they care and feel. Thoughts? I'd rather hear from men with some kind of sex/relationship experience than guys without it. For me what does it is having someone who you can have a great conversation with, someone who can make me laugh and when I am with them I am having a fun time. While at the same time it is someone who I can't resist and want to constantly do naughty things with. Sorry for the off-topic talk. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Pyro Posted June 23, 2012 Share Posted June 23, 2012 Sorry for the intrusion but this thread appears to be indexing posts improperly. Clicking on page three in 40 posts per page view takes me back to page one. I'm seeing posts in this reply box that I can't see during regular thread viewing. Anyone else having this issue? I noted it earlier but came back to it just now and found the same problem. That happened to me on another thread the other night, but by morning it was fine. I read a lot of heinous stuff sometimes, and it does not affect the way I view the world at large. The thread has derailed long enough, although I could not contribute myself I was enjoying reading this thread until it became the usual my apologies for my contributions to the usual.:laugh: 1 Link to post Share on other sites
William Posted June 23, 2012 Share Posted June 23, 2012 Thanks. Switched browsers and it appears to index properly. Carry on. Link to post Share on other sites
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