Author one goal Posted June 23, 2012 Author Posted June 23, 2012 Why don't you try to meet women at clubs, bars, or try and take up some hobbies where they'll likely be available? Don't like bars.
Imported Posted June 23, 2012 Posted June 23, 2012 And the other things I mentioned? Were shot down. Got more suggestion, sure he'll shoot those down too. OP, just do nothing other than post on the internet. Surely that will work.
Author one goal Posted June 23, 2012 Author Posted June 23, 2012 Were shot down. Got more suggestion, sure he'll shoot those down too. OP, just do nothing other than post on the internet. Surely that will work. I won't shoot them down. Give me more.
William Posted June 23, 2012 Posted June 23, 2012 Topic is: How to approach girls at school. As relevant, offer advice tailored to the thread starter's history, respectfully. There is no requirement to type and hit the 'post' button. Carry on.
Author one goal Posted June 23, 2012 Author Posted June 23, 2012 Basically there are two hot chicks in my class. The one I worked with in a group in class on thur so ive got to talk to her a little but not much.
oaks Posted June 23, 2012 Posted June 23, 2012 Basically there are two hot chicks in my class. The one I worked with in a group in class on thur so ive got to talk to her a little but not much. Hopefully by now you know both their names. Do you say "hello <name>" to them when you see them at the start of class or whenever else you bump in to them around college? Do that, and smile. Assuming they don't get all haughty and turn their backs to you, ask how they are and start a conversation. There must be something college related you could talk about - perhaps what other classes they are doing, for example. Then just ask them (well, one of them at a time) if they want to go and get lunch with you after class.
Author one goal Posted June 23, 2012 Author Posted June 23, 2012 Hopefully by now you know both their names. Do you say "hello <name>" to them when you see them at the start of class or whenever else you bump in to them around college? Do that, and smile. Assuming they don't get all haughty and turn their backs to you, ask how they are and start a conversation. There must be something college related you could talk about - perhaps what other classes they are doing, for example. Then just ask them (well, one of them at a time) if they want to go and get lunch with you after class. I'm only taking one class because it's the summer and its at the community college because i transfer the credit over the my university I go to because it saves money. It's like a 3 1/2 hour class from 12pm to around 330pm so lunch think won't really work if I ever were to talk to them more.
oaks Posted June 23, 2012 Posted June 23, 2012 I'm only taking one class because it's the summer and its at the community college because i transfer the credit over the my university I go to because it saves money. It's like a 3 1/2 hour class from 12pm to around 330pm so lunch think won't really work if I ever were to talk to them more. Well, be less defeatist and use your imagination a little! I see now that lunch won't work because your class is after lunch... I'm sure you can figure out what socially acceptable sitting-down-and-eating-or-drinking-something events come after lunch. Or you could try "Let's meet and have lunch -before- class next time and talk about the <thing we need to prepare before class>".
Author one goal Posted June 23, 2012 Author Posted June 23, 2012 Well, be less defeatist and use your imagination a little! I see now that lunch won't work because your class is after lunch... I'm sure you can figure out what socially acceptable sitting-down-and-eating-or-drinking-something events come after lunch. Or you could try "Let's meet and have lunch -before- class next time and talk about the <thing we need to prepare before class>". Well that's why I hope for our project I'm in their group. That way I can see if we can meetup after class somewhere and work. Like last fall a cute girl I liked was in my group and I used that kinda as an excuse. I told her because I don't get to talk to her that much in class if we could hangout and work on our project together. She kinda got the hint though and basically in a nice way said she wasn't interested.
Author one goal Posted June 24, 2012 Author Posted June 24, 2012 This just ticks me off I get shot down everytime.
whichwayisup Posted June 24, 2012 Posted June 24, 2012 I never get a date though. It never works. That's because you go in for the kill TOO FAST! You don't 'hit' on a girl IN class. Crack a joke with her, be kind, be funny and just stop thinking ahead so many steps.
whichwayisup Posted June 24, 2012 Posted June 24, 2012 Well that's why I hope for our project I'm in their group. That way I can see if we can meetup after class somewhere and work. Like last fall a cute girl I liked was in my group and I used that kinda as an excuse. I told her because I don't get to talk to her that much in class if we could hangout and work on our project together. She kinda got the hint though and basically in a nice way said she wasn't interested. At least she was nice about it. Like it or not.. You will find a girl who will like you for who you are but its' time to focus on you and a healthier way of approaching these girls, getting their attention so they actually want to hang out with you. Your goal? Friendship, girlfriend or sex? girls sense it if you are playing them, being nice just to get close and make a move.. This is why on your other thread I told you not to be in their faces and be so pushy.
counterman Posted June 24, 2012 Posted June 24, 2012 Easy, just talk to them. There's a start. You won't get anywhere if you don't talk. Stop thinking about dating or getting shot down or whatever, just talk to more girls, any girls, who cares if they're hot or not. The more girls you talk to, the more comfortable you'll be with yourself around girls.
Author one goal Posted June 24, 2012 Author Posted June 24, 2012 At least she was nice about it. Like it or not.. You will find a girl who will like you for who you are but its' time to focus on you and a healthier way of approaching these girls, getting their attention so they actually want to hang out with you. Your goal? Friendship, girlfriend or sex? girls sense it if you are playing them, being nice just to get close and make a move.. This is why on your other thread I told you not to be in their faces and be so pushy. Why do you think a lot of girls don't like that? The hottie last summer like a week after being in her group I asked her if she wanted to hangout. She was still cool for awhile after that though.
SJC2008 Posted June 24, 2012 Posted June 24, 2012 Basically there are two hot chicks in my class. The one I worked with in a group in class on thur so ive got to talk to her a little but not much. Are you hot?? That's all you have mentioned in this thread. Typically hot guys get hot girls!
Author one goal Posted June 25, 2012 Author Posted June 25, 2012 Easy, just talk to them. There's a start. You won't get anywhere if you don't talk. Stop thinking about dating or getting shot down or whatever, just talk to more girls, any girls, who cares if they're hot or not. The more girls you talk to, the more comfortable you'll be with yourself around girls. But I don't get a chance to talk to them a lot. How can I make them think I like them?
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