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To sum I need to know if a girl in my class is into me or not. I wanna know if shes giving signs. I haven't spoken to her yet or anything but we been in class together for about 2 weeks now. I usually make girlfriends/relationships from being friends first so I dont know how to read signs or pick up girls other then that way well.

 

Well shes in my class and sat near me since the 2nd day of class. The class is a auditorium similiar to a stadium seat movie theater, a typical college class. Well the first sign i noticed is that she glances at me often. she sits right in front of me or either in front 1 seat off. Sometimes she sits behind me ect.. but near. I often see her looking forward but her eyes seem to be looking at me to see if im looking. I been looking at her too, so i dont know if its out of agitation or she is interested. Other pattern I noticed Is one day I sat in a specific seat. The next day i came late and she sat next to that same seat. That day I sat in another seat behind. The day after that she sat next to that seat. Went on for 3 days. Its either means shes trying to get me to sit next to her or just a coincidence, i dont know. she often sits with her body faced me and head kind of looking at me, kind of slouched so i can get a better view of her and her body since i sit behind her of one seat to the right. But lately these two days she sits in front of me 3-5 seats to the right since she comes in late and her normal seat is taken.

 

We also park in the same parking structure. We shared the same elevator a few times just me and her. The only time we spoke is her asking me what floor and smiling, me telling her and smiling. And the other times just silence, but one time i remember she rubbed her upper arms up and down as she was cold,more like her hugging herself rubbing arms as if she was cold, but it was warm that day . I found that odd i thought it was a sign. My friend said it was some body language towards me.I dont know.

 

Lately these signs get less apparent. Im confused. This girl is attractive and this not knowing if she digs me or not is making me interested in her. She talks sometimes to this other guy in class a few times. But never spoke a word to me. Shes quiet in class and so am I. My friends say that the signs show she was interested ,but started giving up since I didnt do anything in return.

 

She still glances at me and still parks in the same structure. Im starting to dig her so much that I notice this little stuff. But Im still not sure if she likes me. I never picked up on a girl other then a friend I knew for a long time"lame". And I am shy and guess i have low self esteem?.

 

So do you think that the signs are saying anything? Is she interested? was she interested? I wanna know so i can initate something before she loses total interest. Another thing is Im not sure if shes married. She wears wedding band looking rings on both right and left hands. Ive seen no other girls that do that. But she seems too young to be married. Well give me some advice if you can.Is she interested or just staring at me out of agitation cause she caught me looking at her. The signs either say she is annoyed by me, or likes me. Ive written alot...:(

 

peace

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My God, man! Stop thinking so hard and analyzing everything! Just ask her if she wants to hang out.

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