loveisabitc Posted June 21, 2012 Posted June 21, 2012 Hi, some time ago I broke up with this beautiful girl, we are still friends (yeeeey chears for friendzoned guys... ) funny thing is we have almost the same relationships as we vere together, just living separately. Still my goal is that we could start something more serious, living together caring and so on. Problem is she still refuses, our brake-up happened because she didn't liked some things in me and she believes I can fiend someone better than her. But I was and still working on thous problems, and mostly I am progressing, changing, and she noticed it and was happy.....but still wants to be just very close friends. I kinda understand her but still its hurts as hell, because there is this feeling that I am somewhere in middle. She doesn't want to lose me completely but doesn't want to get back together as a couple. So....I still dont want to give up....but dont know how much more I can take it......maybe some advice or something ??
Delorean Posted June 21, 2012 Posted June 21, 2012 I'd probably hang back a bit. If she asks to hang say you've plans already. Make her wonder what you're doing. If she asks who with, say just a friend. Maybe she'll feel you're slipping away and she will need to make a move before you're gone.
sheithappens Posted June 22, 2012 Posted June 22, 2012 Good advice on being busy . Hopefully you truly are busy and go out on dates . She wants to keep you on the back burner . You shouldn't be someone's second choice . Regardless , if a girl wants to be with you then she will be with you . Hang in there!
Author loveisabitc Posted June 22, 2012 Author Posted June 22, 2012 I decided to take a brake time, or how is it called - ignore time or something....anyway I,m gonna use this time for myself. It,s going to be some 2-3 weeks hopefully and after that will see what happens. If nothing gonna change, if there not gonna be any possibilities that I see....u get the point. So after this time I will let u guys now what happened.
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