roxiegirl Posted June 21, 2012 Posted June 21, 2012 Ok I dated my ex boyfriend for a total of six months. We had a long distance relationship as I was a freshman in college and he was a senior in high school. The main problem was that I was not comfortable/ready to have sex with him so we broke up on his birthday because of that. The part that kills me is I know he is not the one or someone I see myself in the near future with, but he apologized and I forgave him. We stayed in contact all the time, and three months later I hooked up with him. The same thing consisted throughout the next couple of months and he finally ended things with me saying we should just be friends. I am so heartbroken but I don't understand why....I know I never wanted to be with him...and he isn't the one so why am I feeling this way. We talked for almost two years on and off and I don't know what to do.
hinatticus Posted June 22, 2012 Posted June 22, 2012 That would explain why you feel that way. First loves are always hard to get over. After a few failed relationships break ups become easier. BUT... Once a child enters the picture, holy ****! I'm desperately trying to figure out what to do. I have a good idea on the steps I need to take, but let me tell you, it is freaking hard to let go. I feel if I give up now I'll be letting my son down big time. I'm going against everything I've learned in the past in order to win her love and trust back. It's good that you know you can't see your situation working out long term. Just keep busy, hang out with friends and you'll be fine in no time! Good luck!
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