CostaMesaStudent Posted June 21, 2012 Posted June 21, 2012 Here is the deal, after the guy I was dating broke up with me. We decided to remain friends, but then it turned to be more than that. We spend the weekends together, we fight like a couple (last saturday we "broke up" even though we are just friends. He spent another 2 days with me after that like nothing happened) sometimes he calls me "babe, boo, papi" he says he knows i was hurt before and he doesn't wanna do the same. He is confused and that his heart has been hurt so many times that he is not sure about what he wants. I told him to stop thinking about what we are and to just enjoy the moment. When we were officially dating, we used to call every day, now every now and then, and I am usually the one who asks to go out or do something and he ends up spending the weekends with me. I don't know if he really likes me or he is just using me since he feels lonely. He said I shouldnt put my hopes up, but we still hang out and have deep conversations about feelings, life, past, etc. Help, i would like to know if he is just using me or still somewhat interested in me
Author CostaMesaStudent Posted June 21, 2012 Author Posted June 21, 2012 We are supposed to be kinda friends with benefits, but we don't have sex and the times he wanted, I just didn't want to. We make eye contact and he calls me CUTIE. To make things worse, I'm 23 y/o with little experience, very little. The gay world is very complicated
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