someone12341 Posted June 21, 2012 Posted June 21, 2012 i work with my ex, i try to avoid her as much as possible, we don't work in same department, we use to take breaks at the same time, but after we broke up i changed the time i take them, so i wouldn't have to talk/see her, well that didn't work out cause it seems she is taking same breaks as me now and she will sit right across from me at a different table and position herself so she will be looking at me and act like she is looking at her phone. It almost seems like i was the one to break things off, cause she seems depressed and alot more unhappy, where as i am always looking at the positives of my life and bettering myself, she always initaites contact, i try to keep the convo short and don't bring up anything that has happened between us in the work place, i do not call/text her outside of work, and she doesn't either. so what im wondering is she regretting the breakup, feeling guilty/looking for an ego boost, or am i just looking into things way to much
sheithappens Posted June 21, 2012 Posted June 21, 2012 She probably is seeking attention or also she might just want to try to mess with your head. There is an old saying that goes " never dip your pen in the company ink" it might be true since it leads to things like this .
Author someone12341 Posted June 21, 2012 Author Posted June 21, 2012 thank you for your response, i was kinda figureing that she was trying to play head games, and looking for attention. I think i am just gonna continue to do what i am doing atm and not gonna play her games, focus on myself, have been looking for a new job anyway, the way i figure it is she broke it off with me, there should be no reason for me to go after her, if she wants a second chance she is gonna have to convince me to take her back.
Squishy_Belle Posted June 21, 2012 Posted June 21, 2012 Sounds like she doesn't want you but she still wants the attention of you because it maybe makes her feel good? Do your thing and just leave her be. She will eventually see that you don't care
Author someone12341 Posted June 21, 2012 Author Posted June 21, 2012 well we were engaged, I still care about her I just find it easier to focus on myself during this to help heal the pain I feel. I dunno if she is trying to get my attention to work on things she could have realized she made a big mistake and is worried getting back with me cause of what her firends/ family think of her breaking it off. my co workers say that when we are talking she seems happier and she lights up. don't know, just have to continue the path as if she isn't gonna come back, thank you for reading and giving advice.
Squishy_Belle Posted June 21, 2012 Posted June 21, 2012 well we were engaged, I still care about her I just find it easier to focus on myself during this to help heal the pain I feel. I dunno if she is trying to get my attention to work on things she could have realized she made a big mistake and is worried getting back with me cause of what her firends/ family think of her breaking it off. my co workers say that when we are talking she seems happier and she lights up. don't know, just have to continue the path as if she isn't gonna come back, thank you for reading and giving advice. Of course you still care but she broke up with you. You don't know what the reason is why she is acting the way she is so stop telling yourself ''I dunno if she is trying to get my attention to work on things she could have realized she made a big mistake and is worried getting back with me cause of what her firends/ family think of her breaking it off''. You may be getting your hopes up in the back of your mind for no reason and you won't be able to move on. If she really wanted to be with you there is nothing stopping her from getting back with you.
Author someone12341 Posted June 21, 2012 Author Posted June 21, 2012 ya your right perhaps I just needed to hear that. some part of me doesn't want to give up. but like you said there would be nothing stopping her from getting back with me thank you again
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