happygirl12 Posted June 21, 2012 Posted June 21, 2012 I met a guy online about 10 weeks ago and we met 6 times. I really like him, but I am beginning to think that I should be careful and he might be on the rebound. He was divorced 3 years ago (he doesn't have any children), so he can't really be on the rebound, however he does mention his ex wife a lot. She cheated on him and he says how he is putting himself on the line when he is with me, trusting a woman again. He told me that all of his ex's are "mean." He has taken me places where him and his ex wife used to like to go - he told me this. The other thing I always found odd was some of the quotations he puts on his online profile. He has a lot of quotes that seem anti-women. One is about woman being a dangerous plaything, another is about how women can tell you they love you, but will leave you anyway. He has always been respectful when we go out, but since it is early in the relationship I was wondering if I should be careful with him?
mortensorchid Posted June 21, 2012 Posted June 21, 2012 Do you feel comfortable around him? This information is certainly of note, but how is his demenor when he's around you? Does he seem angry when he should be having a good time? Does he like your friends and family? That is a deal breaker for me.
KathyM Posted June 21, 2012 Posted June 21, 2012 Sounds like he has become very bitter from past failed relationships, and has a strong distrust for women. Doesn't sound like someone you can build a healthy relationship with. When people start attributing the negative actions of a few to a whole gender, that's a very cynical attitude that is going to be hard to get along with in the long run. 1
Ruby Slippers Posted June 21, 2012 Posted June 21, 2012 Sounds like he has become very bitter from past failed relationships, and has a strong distrust for women. Doesn't sound like someone you can build a healthy relationship with. When people start attributing the negative actions of a few to a whole gender, that's a very cynical attitude that is going to be hard to get along with in the long run. Yeah, sounds like he's still "on the dark side". Too bad.
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