Necromancer Posted June 21, 2012 Posted June 21, 2012 Jesus the holy one of israel. Problem is....they only want my friendship and try to shoot me down nicely....just ****ING tell me if you don´t want to go out with me instead of bailing out latter. I can handle it if you say NO just be freaking clear about it. This always happens over time, i only see them as friends first then my feelings start to come JESUS. Last time this happened the friendship faded and we never spoke again (almost year since) still i saw her every day at school and here we go again. So what can i do about this??
Author Necromancer Posted June 21, 2012 Author Posted June 21, 2012 Don't have female friends. its pretty hard to avoid having female friends. I think if i had backup chick i could, but i don't have. The problem is shes always talking to me. I think i will tell her eather to go out with me or to stop talk to me. I am not going to torture myself. No way
alkiewentworth Posted June 21, 2012 Posted June 21, 2012 Hello.. Your problem is you get attracted towards the female friends very soon and it leds to the avoidong sitution for girl. In my opinion you should start talking to them online first and try to be general. It will help you a lot. _________________ Have a look at: married for married | mature .
Author Necromancer Posted June 21, 2012 Author Posted June 21, 2012 Hello.. Your problem is you get attracted towards the female friends very soon and it leds to the avoidong sitution for girl. In my opinion you should start talking to them online first and try to be general. It will help you a lot. _________________ Have a look at: married for married | mature . I have known her since the start of january, I became her friend because she started talking to me otherwise i would never gotten to know her. She had crush on me but i was never into her( i 100% know ), but now i am starting to get feelings for her and i think hers are gone. When i ask her out she always comes up with some excuses because she lives 10 minutes driving way and both of us don´t have driver licence. I think i shall just cut her off.
utterer of lies Posted June 21, 2012 Posted June 21, 2012 So what can i do about this?? Ask out girls instead of becoming their friend. It's that easy. If it doesn't work - ask out more girls.
joystickd Posted June 21, 2012 Posted June 21, 2012 You fall for female friends because its convenient. You meet woman you get to know her on a friendship level and you begin to create this image of her in your head when the reality is she only wants to be friends. The absolute best way to remedy this is to step out of your comfort zone and actually date or even meet women and just have sex with them. Maybe you should do what I do and have lesbian female friends. They will actually fix you up with women unlike heterosexual female friends. This is mainly due to them seeing you as a friend in the sense of two guys or females and not like female male platonic friendships.
kaylan Posted June 21, 2012 Posted June 21, 2012 You never wanted them purely for friendship. You chose them as friends based on your attraction to them. Stop picking female friends based on what your penis likes. Pick female friends based on mutual interests and how well you get along sans the physical attraction.
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