lovestinks101 Posted June 20, 2012 Posted June 20, 2012 I was with her for 7 months. She broke up with me saying we weren't compatible:/ I had NC for 1 month. Thinking & hoping she still cares about me, I couldn't shake off the addiction & just sent her a text today saying: "It's a beautiful day out and I miss you. I hope you're doing well". Her response 8hrs later??!? "Glad to hear from you:) I just finished my thesis and booked a month trip to Asia with this awesome dude, Tim. Am so Happy Happy Happy!!" First of all, who the F is Tim? Second, she didn't even ask about how I was doing!! Reality check folks. They don't care about the people they dumped. As far as I'm concerned, they've already moved on & have planned the scenerios already. The dumpers move on quicker and frankly, they're cold-hearted, selfish, bitches.... (just had to get that off my chest) Stop trying to be nice and just move on already. Even my friends have become so frustrated with me because of my endless creeping and rantings about her. Dumpees, you all need to very bravely LET YOUR EX GO! I've been burned twice now and it hurts more the second time around. No more mister nice guy, peoples. Take NC seriously. Don't get burned. As far as I'm concerned, Tim will have to deal with handful in friggin Thailand for all I care. - The Modern Hopeless Romantic. 2
confusedheartlessbxt Posted June 21, 2012 Posted June 21, 2012 We live and we learn. You will find a girl who is way better and appreciative of what you have to offer. Fxck her and Tim. He may find her incompatible with him.. Pay backs a bxtch!!
barese1 Posted June 21, 2012 Posted June 21, 2012 Dude thats a heartless text reply. Why on Earth would she tell you about some prick named Tim?!? Like you say, and we must realise, dumpers move on VERY quick. As soon as they have it in their heads to break it off, they are moving on. Its been nearly a month NC for me and I feel like sending a similar text to what you did but I would rather suck a rhinos horn than do that because I know I would get a very similar response. Hang in there, does it feel like back to day 1 of NC now you've broken it?
Reddice Posted June 21, 2012 Posted June 21, 2012 A textbook example of why you should never break NC.
radiodarcy Posted June 21, 2012 Posted June 21, 2012 ouch! i feel your pain! the last ex i reached out to made it a point to tell me that his new girlfriend was pregnant with his kid and how he was soooo happy. luckily this was after seven months of strict NC. so i was able to heal much more quickly than i had reached out say -- after only a month or two of NC. But still - - hearing that definitely stung. i know it goes against all wisdom to not contact a dumper at all; and i do agree with that - - and will continue to advise against people doing so. but - - sometimes i think we need to follow through on that urge as the results can be all the confirmation we need to stay away once and for all.
Gulf-Delta Posted June 22, 2012 Posted June 22, 2012 A textbook example of why you should never break NC. Disagree. She needed to go through the pain of breaking NC to help let go of the negative feelings she's having. Breaking NC is what her heart told her to do, therefore, she did the right thing.
SerCay Posted June 26, 2012 Posted June 26, 2012 Dude thats a heartless text reply. Why on Earth would she tell you about some prick named Tim?!? Like you say, and we must realise, dumpers move on VERY quick. As soon as they have it in their heads to break it off, they are moving on. Its been nearly a month NC for me and I feel like sending a similar text to what you did but I would rather suck a rhinos horn than do that because I know I would get a very similar response. Agree Agree Agree with all Barese is saying here. I dumped a guy before and I wouldn't DARE to reply to a text like that..that's just breaking somebody ON PURPOSE. She must be a selfish B*tch. Excuse my french. 1
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