stewiegriffin91 Posted June 20, 2012 Posted June 20, 2012 Hi, This is my first post so I would like to say hello to everyone first of all. Well here's the deal: I just turned 21, I'm a virgin. I dont think I'm bad looking, however having said that I'm not the hottest guy around either. I used to be a heavy pot smoker which made me very very quiet, almost unsocial like. So even when I met a girl I liked, I barely ever even said a word. But that's past me now, I'm completely clean and I don't think I'll ever come back to that bad habbit. Anyway I'm very laid back, fitter than most guys but not as fit as I'd like to be (I'm not talking about my body here, I never really cared if I have a 6pack or not). Whenever I see a girl I like or really like, I'm stuck for words :/ Also, girls that I did find courage to talk to, would say that I'm really nice but it always ended at that. I even tried online dating with no luck. Actually there is girl that seems very nice but she lives all the way over in America. She is however coming over to my country after new year's. She said I'm very sweet but I have a feeling we're just gonna end up friends I'm not really bothered by the fact I've never had sex. I had a chance of loosing my virginity once but I felt the girl I was with at the time was a slut, because everything was going too easy (it never really is for me), besides when I woke up the next morning I realized that I don't even like this girl. I dont wanna loose my virginity to some bimbo that I dont care about. By joining this forum I was hoping I could get some advice from you guys, I always thought that someone special is gonna appear in my life without me breaking a sweat. I was wrong. I'm not maybe looking to get settled straight away but all my friends have gf's or bf's and I sometimes feel like I'm loosing out on something. By the way I'm sorry if I made any mistakes, English is my 2nd language and I'm better at speaking it rather than writing it. Thanks in advance
Seneca Posted June 20, 2012 Posted June 20, 2012 I'm not really bothered by the fact I've never had sex. I had a chance of loosing my virginity once but I felt the girl I was with at the time was a slut, because everything was going too easy (it never really is for me), besides when I woke up the next morning I realized that I don't even like this girl. I dont wanna loose my virginity to some bimbo that I dont care about.... I always thought that someone special is gonna appear in my life without me breaking a sweat. No my friend. That girl was an opportunity to lose your virginity. Plus she could've taught you a few things or two about sex... It's okay to lose your virginity to a complete stranger. Who cares. Just be nice and respectful about it and then move on... Another thing. There is no one more special or important as yourself. Waiting for someone special is just a made up lie that society wants you to believe. There is no such person. YOU are that someone special.
Feelsgoodman Posted June 20, 2012 Posted June 20, 2012 No my friend. That girl was an opportunity to lose your virginity. Plus she could've taught you a few things or two about sex... It's okay to lose your virginity to a complete stranger. Who cares. Just be nice and respectful about it and then move on... Agree 100%. All the virgins out there take notice...your first time will not be that great, and certainly not special, regardless of who you lose your virginity to. We are conditioned to believe that our first time should be with someone special but that's a load of BS. Just think of it as a stepping stone...one you should get over sooner rather than later.
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