peppapig Posted June 20, 2012 Posted June 20, 2012 my f and i broke up, initially it was me, i had a load of crap things to sort out, he was always asking me to meet, i was unable to, then he told me if i didnt meet him someone else would be around and i heard no more. a few days later when i contacted him he didn't reply, i stupidly text and mailed him and have tried to make contact for 3 weeks, he replied once telling me that its too late, that he cant come back that he cares for me and i am lucky he hasnt taken advantage of me, he has also text me saying find someone lese and have physical contact with them and i would be over him. he text me to meet and then said he was sorry that he didnt mean to send that as he was going to send it the day before but changed his mind. I know its over, I am now stopping contact, but i am absolutely heart broken, I am walking, exercising, trying to keep myself busy, but i cant get him off my mind, i love him so much, yet he has treated me really badly. Can some one please give me some tips..... I cant believe he has been so cold, this man asked me to marry him 4 times, it was wrong timing due to the chaos in my life and i guess i just pushed it aside, for the moment. I am so heart broken i cant sleep or eat. wow its unbelievable
edwards99 Posted June 20, 2012 Posted June 20, 2012 (edited) i dont have an answer but her is something to think about..he asked u 4 times but there was chaos u say..well there will always be chaos..that is when we lean on those who stuck around to ask us those 4 times... Edited June 20, 2012 by edwards99 1
blotter Posted June 20, 2012 Posted June 20, 2012 You're doing the right things, just stay NO CONTACT and give it some time. This is what going through a break up is like, there are no quick fixes or magic. You are going to have to go NC and let some months roll by before you start to feel better.
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