Sophia12345 Posted June 20, 2012 Posted June 20, 2012 This section is about doubting the decision right? Since being on LoveShack I've barely read any dumpers 'regretting their decision' (wether that is due to the fact most dumpers feel they have made the right decision or don't post online about it) Although I am the dumpee, one of my freinds is in the dumper situation. Broke up with her ex some months ago but seems asif she is regretting it... Just wanted to hear any stories? Not neccessarily about getting back together, but the dumpers process of 'realising what they had' if that process ever happens.
SimbaApollo Posted June 20, 2012 Posted June 20, 2012 I was in the same situation, I missed everything about my ex (it seemed) and so I got back a hold of him and we started dating again. It was nice for a couple of weeks, but then I started noticing all the things I didn't like that I had dumped him for, unfortunately I had to break up with him again and put him through pain. Sometimes things just don't work out for a reason, but you never know until you try, who knows things could be different for your friend...
SimbaApollo Posted June 20, 2012 Posted June 20, 2012 You start to get blind of the things you didn't like and all you can remember are the good times and the good feelings, you forget the bad. You start to think what if.... Expecially if yyou are lonely or single or have a lack of friends. Those thoughts can blind you into stamping rainbows and flowers to your old relationship. You need to take a good look at what it was you dumped him for and think, can I live with that? Do this before you make any decisions
sheithappens Posted June 20, 2012 Posted June 20, 2012 yes , in my case I regretted breaking up my relationship. sometimes its out of anger!
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