sigurpol Posted June 20, 2012 Posted June 20, 2012 From another thread I had some time back, I mentioned a nasty split between a girl and I who were seeing each other for about six months (she came back to me to try things again). I finally cut ties with her after she was unresponsive to a lot of things and then happened to notice some fishy behavior with her ex who she suddenly got back in touch with. I won't got into the details, but it was obvious what was going on between her and other guys. For a few months now, I've had her blocked everywhere. And apparently thought I had her number blocked until tonight. I have not said a word to her for months and avoid all contact (we work near each other). I'm sitting here and my phone buzzes. It's a text from her. "Your a real p****. Have a nice life, (my name)". I'm not going to respond, but I'm literally shaking with anger right now. I'm going to snap.
Feelsgoodman Posted June 20, 2012 Posted June 20, 2012 Is that the same girl you almost quit your job over (because she works in the same building)? Why do you let that ho have such an effect on you? If a girl texted me something like that, I would just laugh my ass off.
Author sigurpol Posted June 20, 2012 Author Posted June 20, 2012 Is that the same girl you almost quit your job over (because she works in the same building)? Why do you let that ho have such an effect on you? If a girl texted me something like that, I would just laugh my ass off. Hahaha. I hope to get to that level. But yeah, it's her. The text caught me off guard, but I'm settled now
CC12 Posted June 20, 2012 Posted June 20, 2012 The text caught me off guard, but I'm settled now Good. Who knows what idiotic thought entered her head when she decided to text you an insult after months of no contact. Who does that? But hey, maybe that was some sort of ridiculous closure for her and she won't feel the need to contact you ever again. Silver lining, maybe. Did you block her number?
Author sigurpol Posted June 20, 2012 Author Posted June 20, 2012 Good. Who knows what idiotic thought entered her head when she decided to text you an insult after months of no contact. Who does that? But hey, maybe that was some sort of ridiculous closure for her and she won't feel the need to contact you ever again. Silver lining, maybe. Did you block her number? Agreed 100%. I could go on and on about how absolutely pathetic her behavior is right now, but anyone here with half a brain already knows that. Hopefully her decision and my silence was enough for her to realize that I'll have no part of that life. Hopefully. As of now, yeah. I have it blocked. Taken care of. She won't say **** to me if she sees me at work because she knows better.
Snakechammah Posted June 20, 2012 Posted June 20, 2012 Don't answer her. Just ignore the text. She wants your attention. The fact that she is thinking of you even without months of contact shows she's not over it. If you had wanted to emotionally hurt her, you've succeeded! Now you can move on.
Author sigurpol Posted June 21, 2012 Author Posted June 21, 2012 Don't answer her. Just ignore the text. She wants your attention. The fact that she is thinking of you even without months of contact shows she's not over it. If you had wanted to emotionally hurt her, you've succeeded! Now you can move on. A good way to look at it! Just a desperate attempt to fish me. I've always looked at it as, I beat her at her own game. Hence the bitterness and half-assed text.
motive2002 Posted June 21, 2012 Posted June 21, 2012 Yanking the leash to see if the dog is still there... I swear it's like people that have pain in phantom limbs. The brain is wired in such a weird way.
Author sigurpol Posted June 21, 2012 Author Posted June 21, 2012 Yanking the leash to see if the dog is still there... I swear it's like people that have pain in phantom limbs. The brain is wired in such a weird way. While I know it's best to just let it go and forget about it, the behavior itself just blows my mind. CC12 put it best; who the hell knows what she was thinking when she thought it would be a good idea to just text me like that out of the blue. I have half a mind to report her to her superior about it. She's a GM with a company and sending out harassing texts? Give me a break. But then again, it's probably best to just let her keep talking.
Eddie Edirol Posted June 21, 2012 Posted June 21, 2012 While I know it's best to just let it go and forget about it, the behavior itself just blows my mind. CC12 put it best; who the hell knows what she was thinking when she thought it would be a good idea to just text me like that out of the blue. I have half a mind to report her to her superior about it. She's a GM with a company and sending out harassing texts? Give me a break. But then again, it's probably best to just let her keep talking. if you blocked her everywhere else, she probably has been sending emails and stuff to you, starting out nice, but you havent responded, and it got her so worked up that she decided to try your number. That is quite a win for you. I wonder if she was seeing someone, it didnt work out, so she tried to look for you again, hence her anger? Thats great. Silence is so great like that because she cant even guess what you feel about it. Good job keeping a cool head and ignoring it. 1
Author sigurpol Posted June 21, 2012 Author Posted June 21, 2012 if you blocked her everywhere else, she probably has been sending emails and stuff to you, starting out nice, but you havent responded, and it got her so worked up that she decided to try your number. That is quite a win for you. I wonder if she was seeing someone, it didnt work out, so she tried to look for you again, hence her anger? Thats great. Silence is so great like that because she cant even guess what you feel about it. Good job keeping a cool head and ignoring it. I can say with about 90% confidence that she was talking to one of the three guys that I found out about (My best guess would be her ex), and it isn't working out. Her and I dated before, a few years ago, and the same exact thing happened where she was bouncing back and forth with her ex. When it got murky with him, I would hear from her. Totally agree about the silence part. I'll just let her keep chirping. And thank you :-D
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