attractiveness?

[CAW_089]

for guys, what do you find most attractive in girls? physically, and personality wise?

 

for girls, same questions, what do you find most attractive in guys? physically, and personality wise?

[pink_sugar]

Depends on the guy, but sense of humor is an absolute must have. All bets are off if he can't laugh or joke about anything. I prefer lean/slim to lean/muscular guys of average height. Doesn't have to look perfect, but a guy who takes care of himself is a must have.

[iambookworm]

sense of humor is a must have too. Turn off is smelly or unhygienic guys.

[BurningDream]

Strictly physical: A guy of roughly your build , they MUST take care of themselves, I prefer longish hair, I love blue eyes, I love my avatar dude

 

Strictly personality: Serious about serious things like self improvement, lighthearted and fun to be around, on the same wavelength, strong desire to expand consciousness and share that with another....no needing, not needed.

[gskyo]

I think it differs for everyone. I have friends with a thing for adam's apple and arms.

 

I really like hugging so I absolutely love broad strong shoulders on guys. Must be taller than me. A pattern I noticed about myself is that the guys that I've liked in the past have similar facial structures and thin lips (though not the case for the current crush), I have no idea why.

 

Personality wise, he must have direction in life! Doesn't have to be concrete but he needs to have an idea of where he wants to go. He must have a sense of humour, so that he can bare with me. I can be quite a prankster.

 

Being attentive to details about me can almost always successfully attract me! Had a guy fly in a mug from my alma mater(located in another country) just because he knew I missed my old school for no special occasion (SWEET OR WHAT!?), I already had the hots for him but that made me fall madly in love with him. It's a total winning quality!