tim0012 Posted June 19, 2012 Posted June 19, 2012 Little background info, her and I started dating in July last year in Croatia (we are both from there, however, I've been living in Boston for the past few years). We made a deal not to go public, not even our friends know to this day about us due to some personal reasons I can't share. In October I came back to Boston due to school and work obligations. Now, not long ago she came to Texas on a student-work visa and will be here for few months working. We kept in constant touch thanks to modern technology like skype and facebook all while we were in different parts of the world. I'll be visiting her in a month or two where she is staying with few mutual friends of ours whom she will also be when they pick me up from the airport. This got me thinking for a long time now, how should I go on with the first approach when I arrive? I would like to give her a kiss, but that would over complicate things, so any alternatives? Should I say something else, ideas anyone?
ladyabstrused Posted June 20, 2012 Posted June 20, 2012 I would say, just be yourself, feel her out or the situation at the time of meeting and do what you feel is right. You should know her well enough by now if she's accepting with certain types of physical affection or not. Hope it all goes well for you. Good luck!
Author tim0012 Posted June 20, 2012 Author Posted June 20, 2012 That's what I was thinking, depending on the situation and body language and what not, but I also want to have few backups ready just in case. I just want that first encounter to be as best as possible
ladyabstrused Posted June 21, 2012 Posted June 21, 2012 Oh and have a good amount of confidence when you do it.
Morai Posted June 26, 2012 Posted June 26, 2012 When I first met my boyfriend it was a bit awkward, I ave him a huge hug at the airport and we went off to the trains to get to our hotel. I'm a huge klutz and constantly trip over things and what not, so of course I was nervous and making a huge ass of myself. It didn't take him even a full minute to start making fun of me and being playfully mean like we always are together on skype. Our first kiss was at a bus stop after we got off the train and he wouldn't let me out of the monstrous hug he was giving me. Point of tangent. Just be yourself, it'll all fall into place. 1
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