JackO4 Posted June 19, 2012 Posted June 19, 2012 I'll try to make this concise... Dated a girl for three and a half years (Sophomore in College to First Year of Real Life). Got scared and asked to take a break. During this break we'd still see each other usually every week. After a little over a year of this, and resisting her efforts to make our relationship official again she pulls away. We still see each other once a month and talk on the phone every day but its definitively different. A year of that and then she cuts off contact with me completely (January 2011). Since that time she still contacts me about once every month or two, plays a cat and mouse game and then abruptly falls off the earth. Here is a recent summary: 1.) May 2011 - She keeps texting/calling, I tell her I don't want to be an emotional crutch. We fight, I call her a drunk slut hoping it will drive her away forever. 2.) July 2011 - Calls me on a Saturday night and wants to come over. I'm not around but the next day we meet up for lunch and end up having sex. She cries, tell me how she loves me, I drop her off and don't hear from her until 3.) September 2011 - Calls/Texts for a couple of days, sends some pictures, says she was stupid to break up with me, etc. We meet up again and she decides to talk about a recent abortion. I ask her what she wants but she is evasive. I end up calling a friend of hers to see if shes talked about our situation. When she finds out she flips and tells me she is going to file a restraining order!! 4.) November 2011 - Text/Calls even though I've been in a relationship since September. We meet up uneventfully. 5.) January 2012 - Calls me three nights in a row. Says how she misses me, loves me, how she was stupid to break up with me. Wonders aloud if we should get back together. Then falls off a map and won't respond to a single text or call. 6.) March 2012 - Calls and asks if we can be on good terms. Shows up at my place and we hook up. 7.) May/June 2012 - Calls and texts three weekends straight. Whenever I respond she only asks how I am doing. Over this time I've had some random hookups, dated some girls and have been in two somewhat serious relationships. Is this person just a psycho? Immature? She will always be my one and only so I'm kind of a slave to any form of contact. Just looking for some opinions.
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