peppapig Posted June 19, 2012 Posted June 19, 2012 hi all!! Basically I meet a lovely man over a year ago, the timing was probably wrong really as I am going through some personal difficulties, and the worries attached with that of losing my home etc, caused me to have a wall up and not give hm all the attention he needed. I stupidly pulled back from him, he sent me loads of texts and calls to meet up and try and sort things out, but i said no..... I was too confused, worried and coudnt see the woods from the trees. After he sent his final text to me, a few days later, as my work calmed down, I realised what i had done, i tried making contact to no avail, rang text, e mailed, not like me at all!! he replied at one stage that he had moved on, then he told me he cared for me there was no point in meeting, then he text another day asking to meet, twice and then said he didnt mean to send it. I have hardly been eating ot sleeping. I have finally text him telling him this is no good and until he decides to meet or not, i have to cut all contact as its breaking mt heart. I went walking yesterday and today and am trying to keep myself as active as I can....... its so hard not to have some hope, but I guess the hope is slowly dying. I love him so much, would have married him, he asked me to......... would have loved him in my life I guess its true, i need to let go of the hope now........... 3 weeks on
Philosoraptor Posted June 19, 2012 Posted June 19, 2012 Sometimes we fall victim to the wrong timing. He sounds confused and likely a bit scared that you will run off again. I'd suggest just being patient, working on yourself, and letting life play out.
Author peppapig Posted July 4, 2012 Author Posted July 4, 2012 i am doing the nc, and he text me asking a silly question...... i replied to it and said I am still open to meeting for coffee. No reply for 3 days. I am finding this so hard, I am not texting him but I am so down, i am exercising and going out even went on a date, but im not ready for anything like that. I love him so much. I am going to keep up the no contact as I know eventually i will heal but i cant but hope he will contact me again. What are my hopes?
Philosoraptor Posted July 5, 2012 Posted July 5, 2012 So he pretty much got what he needed which was to know you were still open to him. Once that was found out there was no reason to respond. 1
Author peppapig Posted July 5, 2012 Author Posted July 5, 2012 I understand now Gosh it seems to be games the whole dating thing....... Im not into games at all Thank you for replying
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