ziggue Posted June 19, 2012 Posted June 19, 2012 Have I given this guy enough signs that I like him? Giving each other eye contact. Smiling at each other. Going out of my way to talk to him. Getting his number. Flirting and making teasing comments to each other. He reciprocates all of this, even replied to a text I sent with a =) and an open question. It is really confusing. Reckon he would have caught on by now that I like him or would I need to flirt more ? I would have thought that giving my number to him would have been a real dead give away ?!
oneluv443 Posted June 19, 2012 Posted June 19, 2012 i think if he has any sense he'd realize your interested.. you should text him and ask to hang out just you two.
amantis Posted June 19, 2012 Posted June 19, 2012 Thats alot of signs lol , why dont you tell him that you are interested in him and you want to get to know him ? If he wants he wants if he doesnt want you move on
AverageJoe80 Posted June 19, 2012 Posted June 19, 2012 Clearly, us guys, aren't ones to pick up on the most obvious of things. You might need to get the ball rolling on this one.
gaius Posted June 19, 2012 Posted June 19, 2012 Unless you want to beat him over the head with a club and drag him into bed I would suggest stop giving him attention and see if he gets off his arse and makes a move.
ThingsAreComplicated Posted June 19, 2012 Posted June 19, 2012 "even replied to a text I sent with a =)" According to your profile you are 32. Are you serious about this statement? Sorry, it made my day...
MrCastle Posted June 19, 2012 Posted June 19, 2012 A number in this day and age means nothing. Girls flake. Girls play games. Few weeks ago a girl approached me, heavily flirted with me, gave me her number, I texted her later that week, she never answered back. Make a move.
Author ziggue Posted June 19, 2012 Author Posted June 19, 2012 "even replied to a text I sent with a =)" According to your profile you are 32. Are you serious about this statement? Sorry, it made my day... Ha ha! Not really. Just a bit of over analysing there. Oh I have sent a couple of texts just have not had the balls to ask him out yet.
Ninjainpajamas Posted June 20, 2012 Posted June 20, 2012 Have I given this guy enough signs that I like him? Giving each other eye contact. Smiling at each other. Going out of my way to talk to him. Getting his number. Flirting and making teasing comments to each other. He reciprocates all of this, even replied to a text I sent with a =) and an open question. It is really confusing. Reckon he would have caught on by now that I like him or would I need to flirt more ? I would have thought that giving my number to him would have been a real dead give away ?! How do you feel on any planet you have no given him enough signs that you like him? To me at this point If a guy doesn't contact you he's either got someone else or he's not that interested..because most guys will reply even If they have something else going on and it's just too much of an inconvenience to contact you or not worth the effort even in that capacity. Then of course they'll come back telling you how busy they are, or what not excuse. If he hasn't contacted you by now you should move on, getting the ball rolling and bugging the crap out of him just to get "the ball rolling" seems pretty desperate of a move to me...unless this guys just a mega-dork or idiot, or extremely young...men make a lot of excuses for other men but the fact of the matter is that most that are interested in you are going to take the hint when you do all of these things as well as give him your number. You're just asking to be an option at this point...If a guy is interested, he will contact you...works the same way with women...I'm not sure why people fiddle around the grey area so much because they can't get over the fact they like someone...but keep lying to yourself If it makes you feel better. You might as well lay naked 5 ft in front of him....maybe he'll take the hint
Author ziggue Posted June 20, 2012 Author Posted June 20, 2012 (edited) I have thought that. Hence the confusion. He still acts the same around me though. Still jokes around and replies to texts I have sent. Only sent like two. Spread out over time initiating both. I caved. LoL. Do see where you are coming from but and wondering the same thing myself. . Edited June 20, 2012 by ziggue
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