unsure of how to fix this.

[erincarson]

I've been talking to this guy for just a little while. (I'll call him bob). When Bob and I first started talking he would text me all the time random stuff just to chat. Im not one to usually start conversation. He started to not talk to me as much. So i started more conversations thinking maybe he's testing my interest in him. The other night he whispered to me sometimes you just have to go for it. And of course me being passive as I am as he says I didn't go for it. But he knew i wouldn't even though I wanted to so badly. He doesn't respond to most of my messages recently. I want another chance to go for it I just don't know how to go about doing it.

My friend said to just text him and say look the other night you told me to go for it and I didn't the chicken stuff I am I didn't go for it but im letting you know that I like you and if this is to much for you then I'm sorry. I just don't want to be hurt so I'm telling you now. And if you don'tnt feel the same way I would love to be friends with you.

I don't know what else I can do to try and make things better or to the way they used to be.

 

Any advise would be helpful.

Thanks Erin.

[Philosoraptor]

Sounds like he lost interest. If you want to win his interest back you need to step up and go for what you want.

[erincarson]

I did I stepped up and told him how I felt that I was scared and that I liked him... And it didn't go over my way, I give up. I don't know what else to do.

[Philosoraptor]

Well these things happen. If he's not interested anymore you will find someone else who is. Just work on moving on and putting yourself out there to the world

[AverageJoe80]

He sounds like a jerk, if he's being ****ty with you & ignoring you now just because of that one whisper.

[erincarson]

Yeah for a guy who tells me to go for it then when I do acts like an idiot. Thanks guys for all your help. i do appreciate it.