ihateslowjams Posted June 19, 2012 Posted June 19, 2012 ok, so i haven't logged into Facebook since i started NC (9 days). Should i just delete Facebook because i doubt ill be going on anytime soon. I also took down my profile pictures right after the break up because it included her in them. However, i don't wanna send the wrong message to my ex gf that this was due to her breaking up with me. I realized the amount of time I've spent on Facebook every day and would rather use that time to be productive. Do you guys think i should just keep it up and not log on? or delete it? I don't want my ex gf to think its because of her either way.
SarahRose Posted June 19, 2012 Posted June 19, 2012 yes, i hope everyone deletes facebook and it goes the way of aol. 1
Philosoraptor Posted June 19, 2012 Posted June 19, 2012 Who cares what she thinks? If it will help you heal and prevent future pain you should delete it and not look back.
CopingGal Posted June 19, 2012 Posted June 19, 2012 I am a full supporter in the deletion of facebook. I deleted mine several days ago.
Jose11 Posted June 19, 2012 Posted June 19, 2012 I would say delete it, or remove her as a friend. remember your not trying to hurt her, your just trying to heal yourself.
Author ihateslowjams Posted June 19, 2012 Author Posted June 19, 2012 well, whats the difference between just not logging back on and deletion? since i haven't logged on for a week, i don't ever have the feel of wanting to log back in. isn't it the same?
Philosoraptor Posted June 19, 2012 Posted June 19, 2012 well, whats the difference between just not logging back on and deletion? since i haven't logged on for a week, i don't ever have the feel of wanting to log back in. isn't it the same? If you don't want to log back in why not delete it? The reason is because you are trying to prove something to the ex which you made clear in your first post. How would she know you're not logging on? She might think because it's there you are still her whipping boy and obsessing over every little thing she does.
LovelyDaze Posted June 19, 2012 Posted June 19, 2012 At least, deactivate your account. I've learned that you can always go back if you want to(I deleted mine in 2010) then like another LS member said, just delete her as a friend. Think about it, you are deleted from her romantic life as it is so it shouldn't matter if you delete her or your entire FB at all.
Mcnulty Posted June 19, 2012 Posted June 19, 2012 Just block her. That's what my ex did to me...I don't know whether she's deleted it, or using it as I can't see her as i'm blocked....seems the best option.
Author ihateslowjams Posted June 19, 2012 Author Posted June 19, 2012 thanks guys, just deleted it. bye bye Facebook hello time
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