shawtyimyourangel Posted June 19, 2012 Posted June 19, 2012 Ok, this is going to be long, I'm sorry about that. So it all started on Saturday of last week. That morning, my boyfriend came and got me to take me to him house to meet his Mother. Keep in mind that he lives almost 2 hours away, is 18, and his Mom lives with him. Anyway, we went to his house and his Mom wasn't there yet, so we just sat around, talked, cuddled, and all that lovey dovey stuff. I met her, hung out with her, and then we ran around visiting with some friends and all of that. We went back to his house and talked to his Mom until it was about 9:30, (I have a 11 o'clock curfew) and then we left. We were on our way to take me home when she called him informing him that she had just got into a car accident.We turned around and went to her. She ended up having to go to the ER for a couple of hours, so I ended up having to stay the night with my boyfriend. I called my Grandmother to tell her, and she gave me permission. Well, my Boyfriend's Mom went out on a date the next evening, that left us alone. We ended up fooling around, something we had been talking about doing for almost 2 years now. Well, he took me home that night. On Tuesday night, around 3 in the morning, he came and got me again to spend the day with him again. I ended up missing curfew again, and having to spend the night with him again. When he brought me home, my Grandmother told us that there was someone on the way to talk ot us. (I'm 16) That person ended up being the Sheriff, which is friends with my Grandparents. After I explained everything to him, he told her that there was nothing he could do because she gave me permission both times. This is where the heart break comes in. Every since thursday night I have been calling and testing my boyfriend to talk to him about it. He did pick up Friday, and told me he would call me back but ended up not doing it. Well, since yesterday was Father's Day, and my boyfriend's Dad died almost 3 months ago, I called once today to make sure he was Okay. no one answered and it went to voice mail. I am used to this, so i just hung up. Then about a minute later, my phone rang. It was his Mother telling me to quit trying to contact him or else she would get me for harassment. I broke down in tears. So I waited a little bit, and called his Mother's phone. She picked up and I told her that I wanted to explain some things. She said that my boyfriend was there, he told her everything, and there was nothing to explain. I told her that I still had his necklace that I would give it to my cousin to give it to him. She either hung up on me while I was talking, or lost service, because I heard a dial tone. I called her Straight back, it went to voice mail. I continued on talking until it told me I had reached the maximum message limit. She called me back after a few minutes, and basically told me that she wanted my boyfriend to have nothing to do with me because she felt I was an attention seeker, was nothing but drama and heart ache, and thought I would try to trap him into marrying me but purposely getting pregnant. Little did she know that my boyfriend had asked me to marry him on Wednesday. I am just so confused, and I don't know if we're still together because he will not answer my calls or texts, and won't call me either. If you can help, please do. It would be very much appreciated.
Feelsgoodman Posted June 19, 2012 Posted June 19, 2012 Let me get this straight...your crazy @ss grandma called the Sheriff and wanted to get your BF arrested and charged with statutory rape? I can't blame his mom for telling him to stay away from you.
cerridwen Posted June 19, 2012 Posted June 19, 2012 This has all the makings of a situation with a very bad ending. I'd advise you take several steps back as you're proving his mother right in her assertion you're a drama queen. Stop texting him. Stop calling. As a 16 year old, your only option is to abide by her rules. That he's not calling suggests he's aligned with her, or at least wants the drama storm to pass. Stop egging it on. Whatever he decides to do, he's GOING to do. Start working on accepting that.
FitChick Posted June 19, 2012 Posted June 19, 2012 You're jail bait. When you are 18 you can do whatever you like. Of course, you'll be tried as an adult.
Author shawtyimyourangel Posted June 19, 2012 Author Posted June 19, 2012 No she didn't want to charge him with anything. Apparently she done it to scare me into listening to her more.
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