jelly baby Posted June 18, 2012 Posted June 18, 2012 Me and my ex boyfriend were together for two years, we had our ups and downs and a few months ago we seperated whilst he moved on pretty quickly (rebound relationship) after he realised what he had thrown away, he came crawling back. Silly me took him back didn't I? Turns out his ex girlfriend (of two months) was pregnant and I held his hand whilst he had phone calls and texts from her to him saying she was having an abortion and so on. He then said that because she was going travelling Europe in a couple of weeks everything would be good between us. However, she started blasting me all over facebook so childishly I retaliated (I never once mentioned the abortion and the worst I called her was a slag) until she wrote that my ex had slept with another girl in August last year when we were going through a hard time with each other. I text him asking if it was true, turned out it was. This is it, I am not letting you screw me around anymore. Fair enough we were broke up, but we were back together within two weeks. You knock me sick. I now have to book an appointment at the doctors to check I haven't got any STD's. I don't know who she is, or when it happened, all I know is I want you out of my life, forever. I love you to death, but I am worth more than this. I haven't done anything to deserve this. I am not going to be your doormat anymore. I gave you the benefit of the doubt yet you stayed in a relationship with me for another good few months before this finally came out. You are a vile human being. Please stop texting me telling you love me and that ''if i would have lied i can't help but feel we'd be back together and this would have gone better" you are not worth my time. I wish you would have just told me rather than stringing me along all this time. Please stop texting me telling me you love me, you don't love anyone but yourself. I managed 3 months without you, heres to a lifetime without you.
Author jelly baby Posted June 18, 2012 Author Posted June 18, 2012 Also I know that I have just vented all of my anger out and I haven't really asked any questions for people to answer. But if anyone has any advice, I would be really grateful. I feel so alone right now
danny1234 Posted June 18, 2012 Posted June 18, 2012 Hi Jelly Baby Sorry to hear of your difficult time. Anger is part of the relationship grievance cycle, look it up on google, it will help. Time is a great healer, however, exercise is excellent for anger - releases the energy. Try:- Running Boxercise (hitting something) Hot baths & keeping a journal. Also keep posting on here and read other peoples posts. Good luck, Dan x
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