Nika1485 Posted June 18, 2012 Posted June 18, 2012 I was recently seeing a guy, we really connected and had a lot of chemistry. It felt like things were falling into place, he really liked me, and I really liked him. Then from no where he says we will not work as a couple, that we are opposites. No explanation as to why he feels this way, just complete avoidance at this point. This after telling me how he's satisfied with me, this after telling me numerous times how I can trust him, he will not hurt me. I tried to guard my heart in the beginning, but at the same time, I want love, so I was willing to take a chance with him. I just don't understand, why the lies? Or were they lies? Why play with my emotions just to throw me away like garbage? I will never know seeing as how he ended it over txt messaging! I hate having my emotions manipulated, it gets me confused, and I no longer know what's genuine & what's not. He really broke my heart with this one... Any suggestions on how to rebuild my trust in men? How do I give the next man the same chance without thinking, or being scared that he will do the same? Thanks for reading!
GLDheart Posted June 19, 2012 Posted June 19, 2012 It sounds like he broke it off fairly quick. Was the relationship a few weeks, a few months, more? In the beginning you guys are like fresh books attracted to each other by pretty cover art. Once he started reading in, maybe he recognized a bit of story he wasn't looking for. Thank him for the blunt and abrupt honesty instead of stringing you along. 1
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